(unchecked) mental dysfunction makes people do inexplicable things

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Regarding TS, they chose to change their gender, it's not like they had problems with their genitals. They chose to be women, so they should be on straight dating apps, not Grindr or any other gay men apps.

I love and respect asian TS who admit they are LadyBoys. And there are even interviews on YouTube where people ask them, How are you ladies? And they say oh no, we are not ladies we are lady boys, and the people say no, but you’re ladies now and they keep insisting that no we are lady boys.

It’s only in the western world, where TS insist, they are real ladies, then go to gay apps and forums and say you should accept us. We are gay too.

Choose, decide and make up your mind please. Plus there are tons of TS dating apps for them and they’re admirers. Why would you invade our safe space?

I actually posted few hours ago regarding The lesbian, but what’s Grindr forms, but I guess Grindr removed the option to add screenshots or pictures as I was not able to upload any to show you all.

in 2011, xtra cost $4.97—
(in today's dollars, $6.74)
—a month

(there was no "unlimited" until 2019: three years after joel simkhai sold grindr to 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐣𝐢𝐧𝐠-𝐤𝐮𝐧𝐥𝐮𝐧)

i wonder..
..i wonder about how membership dues managed to climb from $6.74/month to $39.99/month

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@ w f

i make you the promise,
as 𝘴𝘰𝘰𝘯 as i see lesbians mixed in my grid,
with the expectation that i'm just supposed to sit back, shut up, and take it, without any recourse,
i'm out

i'm out, and am 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 looking back

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in the back of my mind, resides the thought on whether it's really just a small, vocal minority of mentally-unwell "women" who enjoy kicking up such a big stink over this

because it's.. ..supremely-illogical to me, how the "women" fight with us so vehemently, towards the cause of maintaining an 𝚘𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚌𝚝𝚞𝚛𝚎 which really doesn't benefit 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 that much

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i would love to know who was on grindr when it first opened:

after conscientiously-avoiding the app for over a decade,
i finally caved, joining in 2019—
(2 years after FOSTA-SESTA killed craigslist, and all the other on-line avenues which "women" had to discreetly link with their self-loathing, predatory, queer buddies)
—which does mean, rightfully, i cannot speak to how many "women" there were, or 𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯'𝘵, co-inhabiting the space, back then

of course, i do presume grindr was very much a cis-gay (and cis-bi) haven, in its heyday — certainly so, for those regions where there wasn't a notable population of gender dysphorics to account for

given my prior experiences with growlr and scruff, a "gay haven" was what i had in mind about grindr when i signed-up: 𝚒𝚐𝚗𝚘𝚛𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 = 𝚋𝚕𝚒𝚜𝚜, they say

as i said before: had i known what the 𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡 reality was.. ..i probably would have continued abstaining

that way, i could've employed those 10 - 13 hours of my life i'd eventually go on to lose, for something else better, other than kicking about here on uservoice@grindr — uservoice@grindr, whose matronly moderator is A.W.O.L.

grindr@uservoice — whose matronly moderator wouldn't lift a finger to port this issue from here, over to george arison's inbox,
for him to iron out a solution to make all sides happy (call it "segregation" if you wish),
even if she 𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐞 active

anyway
that's basically the crux of my argument: if it was made clear, from day zero, grindr purports to be an all-inclusive hang, the "women" (and queers) would be well within their rights to chastise us for changing a system that was already firmly in place

Definitely make grindr gay again
Liv in Toronto Ohio 43964

None of your beeswax:

Sadly Grindr added a tag that says lesbian. So they are planning to add lesbians to its platforms I guess it’s time to say goodbye to Grindr 🤢🤮.

This is the result of adding cis women as moderators and Admins to a gay dating application.

yeah

seriously though

i know it'll never happen—
(because "unity" and "cohesion" are non-existent {which, considering the circumstances, is presciently-ironic for me to lament about, i'm aware})
—but, i would love to know what the others would say if we gay men just up and left

if we take care of the problem by "separating" ourselves from grindr

through fully portraying itself as an "all-inclusive" app, grindr will drive away its original target demographic
(a self-defeating move, if ever i come across any)

𝙢𝙖𝙣, do i wish we gays could unite-and-boycott

there are still a lot of people who don't know how to disable grindr's execrable ads..

..well?

with this boycott:
between their being gone, and the other revenue getting stricken by those who aren't paying for memberships anymore, i reckon grindr management finally would take notice

but by then it'll be too late

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sure

let's let 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙤𝙣𝙚 in

lesbians?

𝚊𝚌𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 heterosexual men?

asexuals?

animal fuckers?

heck—
—the 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐳𝐨𝐨 should get in on the action

since, you know, grindr never was intended to be an app for men-seeking-men

@Tony Holmes you’re in the wrong place then looking for females.

Feels like gay men will eventually become a minority on here with all these different requirements that just don’t make sense.

What about bi males???
I like be able to find females on here

Without offending others (my terminology will likely be wrong as it’s a minefield now),

If you believe you are a woman then you do not belong on this app. For years it has been a space for gay *men*

There’s an easy fix - make a free filter to remove trans people or straight men from the grid.

Trans and Str8 take up space on the limited grid, you dumb ass. What part of that don't you understand? We don't give a shit how much fake boobs and shenis they score. Get them off the f-ing grid.

You want to be a victim so bad. Men who are texting trans ppl on the app wouldn't text you anyway. Trans ppl are not taking anything from you.
You just miss segregation. This is NOT important. Delete this.

@ Mariah Green

If you truly want to present yourself as a woman, why aren't you on the myriad of straight dating apps instead of here? Why don't you go harass and shame the straight men on those apps for not accepting you instead of barging into our space and dictating how we're supposed to accommodate you?

As a trans woman myself we have just enough right to be on this app is anybody else not all gay men are masculine men so when a man is looking for someone feminine he's either looking for a feminine man or a trans woman on this app so we fit into the category we are already ostracized and treat it like the bottom of the barrel now we have to have it from our own Community it's crazy without trans woman marching none of you guys would even stand a chance we marched for our rights

We need to start protesting especially I'm facing these challenges in Singapore.

https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/g14fpf/how_to_massauto_block

You could also do the same thing with one of the dozens of auto-clickers on Android or iPhone.

You shouldn't have to, but you could.

I now report all the women I find they dont belong on the app I do so under impersonation citing. impersonating a man please remove the women from the app or I will never restart my paid membership #GOWOKEGOBROKE

It would appear most the moderation is done via AI now so we kneed to teach the AI we don't want women on the app

Either that or we should all agree to message customers support at the same time on the same day for a week demanding for the biological woman to be removed from the app with that same #GOWOKEGOBROKE message who knows if enough of us do it they might finally get the message

Unfortunately there is only one way to get the point across. The new management/owner has one interest money.
So sadly I am cancelling my subscription they can say goodbye to my 40$ a month. Twitting this useless. Cut the purse strings and they'll fold.
Why are we supporting someone who tells us our choices are wrong. What's next "say no to gay" enough I'm paid through the 25 the 25th I'm cancelling and deleting.

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Plz read

Actually I realized there is no point at of us posting and commenting here. The admin/moderator is a cis woman who doesn’t really care about us gays or the app. I suggest we all go on grindr twitter to voice our concerns.

Plus we need to complain about having cis woman who is heterosexual. But even if she is homosexual, she cannot be a moderator in an app thats for gay guys. Thats why all these str8 girls and guys, trans, CD and she-males started Appearing.

Check her profile plz in the closed ideas you’ll see her.

You'll be shocked to see man posts which has many votes but left neglected for over 3 years now, even though it has many votes and supports. This just shows that she doesn’t care and Grindr or doesn’t care.

Plus for trans, she-males, CD they have tons of apps for them and their admirers.

So plz lets all of us go to twitter and voice our concerns. And tell them we are leaving the app if this doesn't change. We demand to make Grindr for gay guys again and strictly no girls or straight men.

No female staff as moderators or admins or decision makers. And whatever you guys need to voice. Im honestly fed up with this app and if they dont change we will be leaving and there are many other apps willing to have us. Cheers.

I agree. I'm over the pollution on this app.