Lets make grindr gay again
Lets make Grindr gay again, lets start by getting rid of biological women and m/f couples. We as gay men have very few apps to meet each other while biological women and m/f couples have thousands for example tinder, bumble and hinge. First it was our bars and now the very few apps we have to meet each, WHY?!?!?! why must we share everything with biological women just for the sake on inclusivity. Why can't we has gay men have our own spaces? Lets Make Grindr Gay Again!!!!
Good God you are all phobic as hell. This app is also for bisexual men and not just gay men. Pathetic.
Lucas Dsouza commented
Please do something about this, soo many profiles featuring straight guys and cuckold couples what is wrong with Grindr , why aren't you taking any action, this is irritating as hell. I'm tired of getting straight guy profiles
I invite all of you who want this to cancel any payment to grindr until they remove all the women they obviously don't care about gay men anymore so let's hit them where it hurts the wallet perhaps once there profits start to drop they may finally listen there are apps for women who want to pretend to be a gay Male make them use them it's not like trans apps don't exist
I get annoyed with the straight men looking for Trans and will say “no men”! Seriously, stay off of gay apps and use Trans Apps and you won’t need to worry about it “straight” man it’s a gay app. And peole say trans are part of the lgbtq community. Yes they are and they straight men looking for them are not. Use the Trans Apps! Lesbians are part of the lgbtq community but they aren’t on Grindr.
If anyone from Grindr is reading these comments, I've cancelled my subscription until this is addressed. The site (or at least my immediate area) is flooded with women and ad bots claiming to be women, and there's no way to filter them out even by paying for enhanced filtering. Gender isn't included as a possible filter, which was not a problem originally when the app was aimed at and used by gay and bi men. You can't even solve the problem with blocking, because there is a secret limit on the number of lifetime blocks for each account. Tech support says I've hit the limit and cannot block any more. As a result, the app is unusable. Please fix this situation.
Women should be using this app it's as simple as that if grindr want to cash in on the woman's market then they need to make a separate app for them and stop forcing us gay men to deal with there crap
You have female sexual organs I am gay and only interested in male sexual organs so I'm not transphobic for not meeting you for sex if you dont have male sexual organs you do not belong on grindr how fucking hard is that to understand
Yes Anon, in the last message..
That’s exactly what I did, dropped Grindr and went to Sniffies. Found it to be a better experience and WAY better environment. It is, so far, exactly as advertised. To bad grinder wasn’t as advertised. I do enjoy checking this Grindr user voice just to see what I may be missing. So far it’s comical…
Anon Feedback commented
Sniffies has now overtaken Grindr for my quality meetups. No women. No trans. Just guys.
It’s CHEAP too, like 80% cheaper and guys on there are real (some but def not as many bots or fake profiles) and they meet up more quickly. Plus, you can see the neighborhood where they live which is awesome because 5 miles away on Grindr can mean across a lake and a 30 min drive.
Grindr is just squeezing out cash from anyone who is horny. They don’t care about gay men as much as profit. If this wasn’t true, they might reinstate a gender filter in the app, but they actively decided not to do this. I’m going to stop my unlimited subscription soon. It’s not worth the hassle of all the fake profiles, flakes and constant need to block trans profiles.
Sniffies which loudly and proudly says in its bio “ a place for straight bi and curious men” and guys looking for guys, if I see a woman in any form I kindly and respectfully mention it to them then report the profile
joey, are you telling us / me this, as a fellow gay man; or, are you telling us / me this, as an individual with a more open range of attraction (pan / demi / bi / queer / et al.)?
i don't reckon that a gay man—
(the sexual identity, "gay," *not* being subjected to these multitudes of new-age interpretations)
— who understands what's going on would make such an expectation of another gay man
you surely must, by now, be aware grindr limits the number of blocks each of us have to our name
concurrently, many don't know they are not supposed to waste their blocks on the infinite hoards of bots, massage / rent boys, and international scammers which grindr had, years ago, integrated into its system as a means of furtherly padding its revenue stream—
—thereby chipping away at the erasures they can apply to actual humans
for those of us who are picky (i know some of you are not): on its own, there is already a nigh never-ending stream of gay and bi-sexual fellas on the system who can be purged from the grid—
—not factoring in those fellas who are mentally ill, mentally dysfunctional, meth-/crack-/heroine-/fentanyl-addicted, emotionally disturbed, and act with malice / negligence
on top of this, we gay males have to see females on our grids too?
2.) no reasonable, mentally sound person, would demand nor compel a staunch heterosexual to engage in homosexual acts,
*or* to force them into an attraction for an individual who is of the "correct" sex and sexuality but who comports themselves as if they're not cis-/heterosexual
so why can't we staunch homosexuals be allowed to enjoy our homosexuality in peace?
who's it hurting, besides those who are not of the correct gender and/or sex whose affections, by definition, we cannot reciprocate?
there is nothing misogynistic nor transphobic about our basic, hard-wired attraction
and, again: no matter what any of you say, forcing gay males to commingle with females won't get either side anywhere far
females—and those who are attracted to them—would be much, much better off with their (your) own space
i know grindr has no intention of creating that much needed trans/female-friendly space,
so believe me when i tell ya, joey, et al., i'm continuing to look for an alternative
if i had the ability to, i would create that No Females space myself,
but i don't have the money nor the programming experience for it
These women really do need blocking from app completely why they feel the need to keep comes at me as cis gay Male whome is also a bottom demanding that because I will not meet and sleep with them I'm transphobic and a ton of nasty vile terms they don't even make an effort to look like a man
could you imagine if me as a man looking like a man went on some app and started demanding that the cute st8 guy meets and sleeps with me as I identify as a woman that wouldn't work and I wouldn't expect it to.
in fact I would expect a meet to be arranged and I get beaten up for my troubles that's if I didn't get blocked from the app under some harassment policy
Joey Osborne commented
I just cannot see what the problem is! If you are not interested in the individual or couple that are on the go to the next one .,just pass over.
letsgrind, i agree
i agree that all of us cis-males, who have zero (or little) sexual attraction to females—"females," worded as such intentionally—should ditch and never look back
i've been sitting back and watching the comments, over these last couple of weeks, unfold here ever since i'd shared my latest thoughts on the matter
it saddens me, more, how most of our gay brethren don't realize that grindR's "leaders" are perfectly content to keep things as they are — that, our griping here *never* will change anything
they're more than content to allow grindR to become the latest headline of failure in the news, so long as they have their millions
all those bastards understand is money
if i knew that a class action lawsuit would strip those crooks,
who've ruined what once was a great product for gay men
—and passable transmen who have, to the best of their ability, fully committed to transforming into men—
of all their wealth, i'd surely join in
..i also know the reality
it would take a literal miracle to finally kick grindR's current leadership out of their ivory tower
but i suppose we can still try
do you have any suggestions LG?
Again… everyone… it’s time to just ditch this app entirely. I’ve gotten rid of my premium subscription and so should you. They’re not listening and just pandering. Done with this garbage - can you HEAR Grindr NOT listening to us? At ALL?
i wonder, if the c-suites of grindR are reading through these comments, having a great laugh at all this tribal warfare we've been waging amongst ourselves for these past few years now, while enjoying their steadily-incoming millions
they *have* the ability to make both sides happy, within a week's time (or less)
but grindr has no interest in this
to my trans-sisters (and your allies) out there, who have been "speaking out" here thus far:
1.) you would have an exceptionally valid point, in arguing against us cis-gay men, if grindr had started off as an "all-inclusive" meeting app
(again: "all-inclusive" would have to include our cis-lesbian sisters out there)
if grindr had been like this from the beginning, i would have never joined
because i am interested in other cis-men.
2.) because i am interested in other cis-men, and passable trans-men.
no amount of arguing with me, or others like me (especially, the men who only want other cis-men, period), will change that basic aspect of our attraction
for the majority of us: our attraction, and desire to convene with other men, is no more "misogynistic" than it is "transphobic"
i, as a gay man, would not force you of the trans tribe to commingle with cis-women, if that's not who you're attracted to — and i would not try gas-lighting you by claiming you're "misogynistic" for it
do you understand where i'm coming from?
Yes I to have cancelled my membership until these women get removed from app I'm not paying to receive abuse for being a gay male on what should be a gay app the bastards restated it without consent so I reported them to Google play and got a refund they just dont take no for answer you block them and there back on grid with new profile but same pics with in the hour sometimes maybe if enough of stop paying they might listen but they seem to be pretty adamant on pushing that woke inclusion agenda where nobody has a gender or sexuality
Alex Meiser commented
Grindr is f for the guys after all right why all these unnecessary gender fluid whatever's it's grinder it's supposed to be gay keep it that way!! or maybe somebody else will come gay app 🥷🧏💪along and make a better app
Douglas Mosier commented
I just canceled my account And put in the comments that when they get rid of them or give us a way to block them from our grid I and many others will be back. Let's hope they listen
Kevin Rocha commented
Douglas Mosier commented
Everyone needs to report each and every one of these profiles as spam. Maybe then Grindr will get the hint