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1. Ethnicity Filter BACK!

   dear Grindr, when will You please stop ignoring people questions about restoring the ethnicity filter option? We all know, there is a problem with racism in America, but I havent noticed, it has been better since there was no ethnicity filtrer on Grindr... We dont have this problem as a gay society. Your decision to remove this option is ridiculous and embarrassing... Did You ask your customers, what they think about? Why dont You not allow people to decide?

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2. Select and display only accounts looking for a relationship.

   Please add the feature of submitting accounts that are only looking for a relationship and not sexual relationships or just friendship only

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3. Trans

   Trans need there own app

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4. distance filter

   I would like the app to have the option to filter by distance. That way I could better select people who are closer to me.

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5. Ethnicity

   Argument: Why Choosing Your Ethnicity on Grindr Is Not Racism

   When users on Grindr or similar dating apps indicate their preferences regarding ethnicity, it's important to differentiate between personal preferences and racism. Here are several reasons why such preferences, when exercised respectfully and with awareness, do not necessarily equate to racism:

   1. Personal Preference Is a Natural Part of Attraction
      People are naturally attracted to others based on a variety of factors, including physical appearance, personality, cultural background, and, yes, ethnicity. Ethnicity can shape a person’s identity, including cultural practices, language, and even physical features, which may influence what an individual finds attractive. Just as someone might have a preference for a certain hair color or body type, a preference for ethnicity is simply part of the broader spectrum of personal attraction.

   2. Ethnicity and Cultural Connection
      For many, shared ethnic background can be important because it aligns with shared experiences, values, and cultural references. People might feel more comfortable dating within their own ethnic group because it provides a sense of shared history, common ground, and mutual understanding. In this context, the choice is less about exclusion and more about seeking someone with a similar background and experiences.

   3. Cultural Identity and Pride
      Ethnicity often ties into a person's sense of cultural pride and identity. Just as a person might want to connect with someone who shares their national or regional identity, ethnicity on dating apps can be a way to celebrate and connect with others who identify similarly. For instance, a person who identifies strongly with their Latinx, Black, or Asian heritage might prefer to meet people who understand and appreciate the nuances of that identity. This preference is a personal choice, not a racial judgment or exclusion of others.

   4. Not About Stereotyping or Generalizing
      Having a preference for a specific ethnicity does not automatically equate to racism. Racism is rooted in prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed at someone based on their race. However, choosing to date people of a certain ethnicity (or avoiding others) is a matter of individual choice, and it doesn’t inherently involve prejudging or demeaning others based on their race. The key difference here is the intent: racism is about dehumanizing or belittling others, whereas personal attraction is about individual taste.

   5. Acknowledging Historical Context
      Many critics argue that preferences in dating apps reflect the broader societal dynamics of racial inequality or colonial histories. While it's true that racism is entrenched in many societies, acknowledging this historical context should not automatically reduce personal preferences to acts of racial bias. People’s preferences can exist alongside their broader commitment to fighting racism. For example, someone may have preferences based on ethnicity but still actively engage in anti-racist efforts in other aspects of their life, such as through social activism or supporting diversity.

   6. Ethnic Preferences Can Be Based on Positive Experience, Not Exclusion
      Often, preferences for certain ethnicities are not driven by negative stereotypes but rather positive experiences or attractions. For example, someone may prefer dating people of a particular ethnic group because they’ve had past relationships with individuals from that group and found those connections fulfilling. This positive reinforcement doesn't constitute racism; it simply reflects an individual’s dating history and experiences.

   7. A Matter of Choice and Freedom
      Dating preferences are personal and subjective. Just as people choose to date based on physical appearance, personality, or shared values, they also choose based on ethnicity. In a free society, individuals have the autonomy to make choices that best reflect their personal desires. Imposing blanket rules that dictate who someone can or cannot date based on their preferences infringes on this personal freedom.

   Conclusion:
   While it's crucial to approach conversations about ethnicity with sensitivity, the act of choosing one's ethnicity on Grindr or similar apps is not inherently racist. It is simply a form of personal preference rooted in attraction, cultural identity, and shared experiences. Racism involves harmful attitudes, discrimination, and prejudice, which are fundamentally different from personal dating preferences. As long as preferences are communicated respectfully and without demeaning others, choosing one's ethnicity is an individual decision that does not equate to racism.

   Argument: Why Choosing Your Ethnicity on Grindr Is Not Racism

   When users on Grindr or similar dating apps indicate their preferences regarding ethnicity, it's important to differentiate between personal preferences and racism. Here are several reasons why such preferences, when exercised respectfully and with awareness, do not necessarily equate to racism:

   1. Personal Preference Is a Natural Part of Attraction
      People are naturally attracted to others based on a variety of factors, including physical appearance, personality, cultural background, and, yes, ethnicity. Ethnicity can shape a person’s identity, including cultural practices, language, and even physical features, which may influence what an individual… more

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6. Filter out all the woman, girls, trans, guys with long hair.

   I'm finding it difficult to use Grindr effectively, as there seem to be many profiles that don't align with what I'm looking for. As a paying member, I feel there should be a way to filter out profiles that don’t match my preferences. The situation has become frustrating enough that I'm considering canceling my subscription, and I believe others might do the same if this filtering issue isn’t addressed. Grindr was originally a space for gay men, but now it seems to include a broader variety of profiles that I'm not interested in seeing, such as Women, Girls, Trans people, and EVEN GUYS WITH LONG HAIR WEARING WOMENS CLOTHS.

   I'm finding it difficult to use Grindr effectively, as there seem to be many profiles that don't align with what I'm looking for. As a paying member, I feel there should be a way to filter out profiles that don’t match my preferences. The situation has become frustrating enough that I'm considering canceling my subscription, and I believe others might do the same if this filtering issue isn’t addressed. Grindr was originally a space for gay men, but now it seems to include a broader variety of profiles that I'm not interested in seeing, such as Women, Girls, Trans people,… more

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7. Gender Filter

   Hi,

   Please include a filter for gender so I can remove female and female presenting ppl.
   I come to Grindr for men and male presenting.
   Females and trans females should not be in my feed at all. This is why I use Grindr.
   Gender and sexuality are not the same thing.

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8. Sister site

   Add a linked site, “ GRINDR TRANSITIONS” for the Trans Male and Female Members, can link to it from GRINDER HOME PAGE, site has gotten so saturated with Trans profiles you can barely find a Cis Male anymore.

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9. I want my guys to excell at 69 both rimming and sucking

   They should be proficient at this and be able to do it with me at any given moment

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10. Is Grindr Supposed to be a Prostitution / Scam App?

    ... because literally 95% of users I've interacted with request money up front within 10 messages.

    Is this okay with ya folks, or is there just a complete lack of oversight on community profiles? Because meeting people for anything legit is practically impossible on the app right now.

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11. Adding more tags

    I think adding more tags or even like scruff where you can search a specific kink is a good idea. For example choking.

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12. ETHNICITY

    Bring back the ethnicity selection! I'm tired of having to search for what I like when I was able to select it previously 🙄 so ridiculous

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13. You’re charging WAYYYY too much money. It makes the app less worth while for those who do pay as well. So it’s like why pay at all?

    Dear Grindr Team,
    Finding your type is challenging enough without the added burden of high subscription costs. It feels unfair to force an entire generation, many of whom cannot afford an expensive app, to struggle in their search for companionship. The high subscription fees make it difficult for free users to justify the cost, especially when they receive so few features in return.
    Not everyone has the financial means to purchase a subscription. By charging such high prices, you inadvertently make it harder for people from all demographics to find partners who match their physical and lifestyle preferences. In the midst of an ongoing housing crisis and widespread financial struggles, it’s hard to see the value in purchasing a subscription.
    This pricing model can make users feel unworthy of finding a partner and discourages engagement, as many features are either unavailable or too costly. I urge you to consider more affordable options that allow everyone to benefit from the app’s features, fostering a more inclusive and supportive community.
    Sincerely,
    Charli xcx

    Dear Grindr Team,
    Finding your type is challenging enough without the added burden of high subscription costs. It feels unfair to force an entire generation, many of whom cannot afford an expensive app, to struggle in their search for companionship. The high subscription fees make it difficult for free users to justify the cost, especially when they receive so few features in return.
    Not everyone has the financial means to purchase a subscription. By charging such high prices, you inadvertently make it harder for people from all demographics to find partners who match their physical and lifestyle preferences. In the… more

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14. Face pic verified

    Add an option that a person without verified face pic in album or on profile can not contact me

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15. Ethnicity filter back

    Here are some arguments for reinstalling the ethnicity filter:

    1. Freedom of Choice and Preference: Each individual has personal preferences when it comes to selecting a partner, and ethnicity can be one of those preferences, just as age, location, or interests might be. Reinstating the filter would respect users' freedom to express these preferences without needing to block or filter people out afterward.

    2. Voluntary Disclosure: Users have the option to disclose their ethnicity on their profile. If a user chooses to disclose their ethnicity, they are willingly sharing it as part of their identity. Others should have the right to filter based on the information that is voluntarily provided. If users feel uncomfortable, they are free not to disclose their ethnicity.

    3. Avoiding Unintentional Harm: When the filter is removed, users who prefer specific ethnicities might resort to behaviors that can cause harm, such as blocking or excluding others after interactions. This can lead to rejection or awkwardness that could have been avoided with the filter in place. Providing a filter allows for more transparency and avoids negative social interactions later in the process.

    4. Cultural Compatibility: For many people, ethnicity is closely linked with cultural, religious, and familial values. Allowing users to filter based on ethnicity supports cultural compatibility, which can be a key factor in building lasting relationships. It’s not always about racial bias but shared backgrounds and traditions.

    5. Promoting Inclusivity and Diversity: While the removal of the filter may have been intended to avoid exclusion, it might ironically decrease the likelihood of diverse relationships forming. When users can filter according to their preferences, including ethnicity, they are likely to engage more genuinely with people they are interested in. Without it, people may be less inclined to explore profiles they find irrelevant, leading to less engagement overall.

    6. Users Can Already Block by Ethnicity: Even without the filter, people who hold prejudiced views can still exclude others based on ethnicity by manually blocking them after seeing their profiles. Therefore, the absence of the filter does not eliminate racial bias, but merely makes it less transparent. It is more beneficial to make these preferences explicit from the outset rather than fostering hidden forms of discrimination.

    7. Respecting Personal Agency: In a free society, personal choices, as long as they do not harm others, should be respected. Allowing users to filter based on ethnicity acknowledges that individuals have their own preferences and agency in selecting partners. For some, ethnicity might play a role in attraction, comfort, or compatibility, and that should not be dismissed or stigmatized.

    These arguments emphasize the importance of personal choice and transparency while acknowledging that people may have legitimate, non-racist reasons for using ethnicity as a filter in the context of social or romantic apps.

    If you disagree with these arguments, please be specific. Do not simply accuse others to be "racist".

    Here are some arguments for reinstalling the ethnicity filter:

    1. Freedom of Choice and Preference: Each individual has personal preferences when it comes to selecting a partner, and ethnicity can be one of those preferences, just as age, location, or interests might be. Reinstating the filter would respect users' freedom to express these preferences without needing to block or filter people out afterward.

    2. Voluntary Disclosure: Users have the option to disclose their ethnicity on their profile. If a user chooses to disclose their ethnicity, they are willingly sharing it as part of their identity. Others should have the right… more

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16. Allow line breaks for bio again and double character limit

    I used to be able to do line breaks in my bio, now it makes you enter all text like a huge paragraph. People barely read bios as it is, please make it simple to read. Also, allow more text in the bio too. Some of us have kinks/fetishes we need to detail and the limit is super low. I suggest doubling the character limit!

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17. Filter by any of multiple tags

    It would be great if we can filter by a certain tag or another one instead of both at the same time.

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18. Cuckold

    PLEASE ADD CUCKOLD AND BULL FILTER SO THAT CUCK CPL AND FIND SUITABLE BULL TO DRILL THEIR HOTWIFE AND ALSO PROVIDE FILTER FOR COCK SIZE BUTT SIZE BOOB SIZE FOR HOTWIFE ....

    ALSO TIE UP WITH OYO ROOM SO THAT FUCKBUDDY CAN MEET AT HOTEL WITHOUT SHOWING THEIR IDENTITY. FOR PRIVACY ..

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19. Should add long haired button

    J'utilise l'App en francais, yet help center is in English.
    Think u miss some tags. Should add long haired. As well as bald, I guess (?). Some like

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20. I mean hopk ups are fun and all but i think it wpuld be cool to have a seperate tabs for other people who are looking for a bit more

    I mean hook-ups are fun and all, but i think it would be cool to have a seperate tabs for other people who are looking for a bit more.

    Like a friend's tab, a hook up tab, and maybe a looking tab.

    Friends: looking for friends or friends with bennifits

    Hookups: looking to fuck

    Lookings: looking for something more then friends with bennifits (long/short term, open to)

    I just think it would make opening grinder just a bit more worth while.

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