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An error occurred while saving the comment An error occurred while saving the comment @Akalah I'm not an imbecile because I say to mind your own fucking business. It's rather myopic of you to be concerned with what others do in their own homes. Not too long ago, there were anti-sodomy laws in this country. People were outed, jailed, and sometimes killed for their private business that they conduct in their own homes and bedrooms. Concerning yourself with someone else's substance use is no different. What would you say if another social app were monitoring conversations to detect who has had or is thinking of getting an abortion? Would that be okay? The concept of privacy is so fundamental that the founders included it in three separate amendments. So yeah, I think your self-righteous, holier than thou perspective is sophmoric at best and your anger comes off as comically funny more than anything. Oh, and I made no assumptions about the wealth, or lack thereof, of anyone who lives with substance abuse/use issues. Not only did I not make any assumptions, I didn't state anything about their socioeconomic situation. Seems like someone else is being rather audaciously presumptive here, and not me. 🤔
@None-of-your-beeswax But you are shaming them, whether you like it or not, you are. So, as you said, cut the crap on that one. Also, just because someone asks you if you party doesn't open some proverbial door and give you latitude to make their hobbies and habits your business. It's not different than if someone asked you, "do you drive?" You can choose to answer it or not, and return the question. Sometimes, people might ask you that because they take issue with partying also and are trying to avoid such an encounter. So, you don't really know what the motivation is in asking; you're just jumping to conclusions.
An error occurred while saving the comment Whatever happened to minding one’s own business? If someone else chooses to do drugs, that of course is their business and not mine. Them using and making others aware that they do, is not an invitation to use if you don’t already. It could be, sure. But don’t assume it’s all about you either. All you are accomplishing is shaming these individuals, who usually already carry a great deal of shame around for various reasons. Just keep it moving if you’re not interested in how someone else lives. They ain’t here for you either, and no one is calling the cops on you, or getting you banned from the platform, like many of you do to them. All this extra shaming, only drives them further into their addiction by the way. Good job on being part of the solution. 🙄
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An error occurred while saving the comment You realize that if you mock your location, then your boyfriend can too? Which means you can’t do anything other than catch him on grindr, which you are also on, so don’t be a hypocrite or get off the app.
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@NoneOfYourBeeswax - Are you for fucking real?! No cop is going to look at your home and think "oh this must be his supply house! let's seal the deal and arrest these mooks!" No. Just no. That is just simply NOT how law enforcement takes down a drug dealer. They spend weeks to months investigating people--determining that they are in fact distributing, by gathering evidence of such through controlled purchases. They use bills that they have recorded the serial numbers of, so that they further corroborate the evidence when they arrest the dealer, and he has those bills on his person. It's too dangerous for a single cop to go into a situation like that alone, or even just him and a partner. Such an act would require first a search warrant for the home, and then an arrest warrant for the addict you brought over. So get real, cut the crap, and stop making excuses to pry into people's private lives. Moreover, if your home is well-maintained and appears on the up-and-up, no cop is going to see an addict entering an apartment or house and think that he's at "the spot". Said addict could just be visiting his mom, or his brother, or someone who has nothing to do with drugs whatsoever. This may be hard for you to comprehend, but addicts are very much a part of society, just as you and I are. Many of them are quite functional and you would never know they are under the influence.
You're well within your right to not want someone doped up on a substance in your home, but that doesn't justify actively monitoring our conversations or reporting them to law enforcement. Personally, I don't and won't hook up with drunk people. It has more to do with how I can smell their bodies metabolizing the alcohol than anything. Nonetheless, if one shows up to my door inebriated, they aren't coming in. So, why is it okay for drunks to stumble all over town and to my doorstep (because you know they aren't going to tell you first either), but an errant tweaker is cause for a constitutional convention in your eyes?
I suspect that both you and @Akalah have substance use issues in your past and are vehemently intolerable of others' usage because--GOD FORBID--someone else be allowed to get high when you cannot. Misery loves company and you rather see everyone be miserable, since you are too.
This is also part of the reason I did not acknowledge what @Akalah said regarding his/her alleged experience. I don't think it really happened, because both of you seem incredibly capable of fabricating anecdotal evidence in order to have your perspective be the prevailing one. The narrative just fits too well. It's just too convenient that @Akalah claims that s/he contracted HIV vis-a-vis being drugged and subsequently raped. What was he doing in an environment around people who had drugs, and didn't know them well enough to know they were capable of such a thing, or that they even had HIV? It sounds to me that, if his claim is true, then s/he was probably there getting high with them already, and consenting to using as well as engaging in sexual activities. If not, then you need to vet your people better than that before meeting. But none of that really matters because someone who survived such a traumatizing event isn't back on the apps still looking for dick. I know survivors of rape, both men and women, and they all struggle with intercourse now, even in the context of a relationship. None of them go on hook-up apps, seeking out more sexual encounters.
So yes, I flat-out ignored the ridiculousness of what you both wrote there, and was ignoring your hypocrisy @Beeswax. It's clear that your new addiction is arguing online with people about the perils of drug use. Get over it, bro. If you focused on you and living YOUR life, then you'd probably be having a much more fantastic time on this giant spinning rock that we call Earth.