Please restore ethnicity filter
I am Asian, and I would like to have the ethnicity filter option back. As a "minority", I don't think the filter option is racist. It offers me choices. Sometimes I want to search for Asians for example,, and if there is this option, it will make my search much easier to find.
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ASplendidTime commented
p look, I understand what you're saying. I agree that using a filter doesn't make you racist. But I don't think it makes you stupid. While I don't think there's anything wrong with helping to broaden people's tastes, I believe that ultimately we all decide on what turns us on. I personally can enjoy men from different ethnic backgrounds, but my 'type' does not directly involve ethnicity. Some people feel differently and don't want to be presented with a lot of guys that they are not attracted to. You've read the arguments for this request. One could argue that 'being open minded to intimacy' should include women as well. Many of us are bi. I'm sure you're not making this argument. But I hope you see my point that we all have a desire for what gets us going sexually and a service that claims to facilitate finding compatible partners should not be pandering to the 'woke' mob to the displeasure of their own customers.
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Charles Bolding commented
Hello
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p look commented
When gays exclude other races by using a filter, that doesn't make them racist, it makes them closed minded. Why miss out on meeting someone because of race, why not try something new? I started off aiming for one race and now I've become attracted to all races through experience.
For those who admit they exclude some ethnicities, give a different race a try. Maybe it's a good thing there is no ethic filter in an effort to broaden people's tastes.
I admit I used the filter for specific searches because where I live there are few Asians so it would help me locate some faster. I'm white and I started off wanting blond white boys. I've changed. I am attracted to any race now. I love having more to chose from. Regularly excluding other races is not a preference, it's closed minded. My message to those who always exclude some ethnicities, it's your loss. Open up a little. My message to Grindr is don't put that filter back. There are not only racists out there but it can cause pain for vulnerable folks who do feel rejected for their race. There is no perfect answer because people will still look for only one race. I repeat, that doesn't make you racist. I think it makes you stupid. Being open minded to intimacy with more races means you are smart enough to enjoy different skin colors and body features. Gays should lead that cultural trend instead of being a carbon copy of the boring and often racist straight world. Aren't we better than that?
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Amber Allen commented
. Seeking what you like what turns you on what your desires and your ideal partner is . This doesn't make you racist I don't date black people I don't date older type or younger than 30 I don't date Asian Mexican people Latino people however in my friends list people all backgrounds and all types are included. I said don't talk to me because you're black that makes me prejudice if I said I won't date you because you're black or some other characteristics that doesn't make me prejudice it makes me selective. .. Dating is a form of individual choice and selfish in nature. Where we choose what we like . who want to be with what we don't want to be with we're selective and selfish a choice based upon personal not public or politically correct and it's a right to be selective in dating process does it make a racist bigot homophobic no . It's just a person with individual likes and dislikes based upon individuality. A personal choice it's neither wrong nor right but a personal choice made strictly upon a personal level based upon personal likes or values or moral cannot. be argued. A personal choice is a choice made upon individuality and no one can argue it to be wrong or right . Don't confuse Self Indulgence and the right to be selective and hatefulness in fact we all have boundaries that does not make us prejudiced or a bigotry or hateful I'm a transgender mtf individual that has spent many years as a therapist also. A advocate for individuality. human rights LGBTQ rights transgender rights and acceptance. I
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𝙽𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝙾𝚏 𝚈𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝙱𝚎𝚎𝚜𝚠𝚊𝚡! commented
yeah, honestly?
removing the ethnicity filter was nothing but an empty, performative platitude grindr enacted to quiet down some squeaky wheels
nothing meaningful was accomplished by doing this
i also would not be shocked if grindr didn't view this "politically correct" move as nothing but an opportunity for a potential money grab, one that makes it more annoying for folks to find what they want (or exclude what they believe they don't want)
we all know the racists, the close-minded, and the bigots are going to stay racist, bigoted, close-minded, and/or prejudiced — nothing has changed just because their ability to directly sort according to their biases, however short-sighted, has been taken away by the platform they happen to be on
i'm of the opinion: good riddance
i don't want colour-excluding assholes clogging up *my* grid — irregarding whatever reason the asshole excludes by colour
so, grindr?
bring it back
go ahead and bring that ethnicity filter backfind yourself another battle to fight
fight *this* battle in another way
unless, of course, you actually don't care about the marginalized/ostracized — only the dollars that you would lose if that function of your app is restored (for free)...
...which, from what i've observed, actually is a "modus operandi" that is well within 'brand' for your companyP.S. — i'm a black man who does NOT engage in making categorical ethnicity-based exclusions
i'm also a black man who recognizes EVERYONE can be a remarkably-foul piece of shit, irrespective the colouring of their skinthat said, i will leave off with these two points here:
1.) colour exclusionists? ask yourself WHY you exclude all members of a given ethnicity
2.) we've been fighting this war for centuries now, and might well continue fighting it for centuries more
i do have one fun factoid/reminder: back during the time of sanctioned black enslavement, some white enslavers DID, very much, have no problems seeking us out for their sexual gratification
they evidently weren't repulsed by the idea of becoming intimately-acquainted with our ebony black flesh, eh?actually, now that i think about about...
...this is also true of the colonizers from western europe — the "latin" ones who invaded / pillaged the indigenous of south and north america for many generationsis it not?
those white parasites couldn't help themselves from schtupping all those golden brown natives (natives who, originally, were-all minding their own business...not even aware of the impending White Doom) either
those colonizers didn't turn *their* noses up at the idea of commingling with "lesser" coloured people, now did they?
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Ryan Smith commented
ick
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Hhggg commented
@kevin leach: you make a good point.
whether grindr has the ethnicity filter or not doesn't change the preferences of its users, who are still going to not chat to, or block, people of certain ethnicities.
And this could be worse for people of those ethnicities -- with a filter, they won't get viewed at all. but without a filter, they'll get viewed, get excited and look at who viewed them, only to then seconds or minutes later see that person has disappeared from the view list i.e., has blocked them.
I would argue that having the ethnicity filter is actually kinder and less offensive than not having it.
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kevin leach commented
Ya i make it a point to block anybody i dont find attractive, fems, trans, ect fucking anoying i have to make my own filter
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Anonymous commented
Just stop. You know Grindr is not going to add more filters. It would mean less money for them because you are no longer wasting time sifting through non-matching profiles. They will just keep adding more options to the useless tribes and tags feature to make all the simpletons happy.
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won smith commented
this me
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Ulisses Dias commented
Please restore Ethnicity filter, it nothing has with racist, as a gay man I love Arabian guys, I talked with I guy and the only way to find him again it should be with that filter but it doesn't have anymore so please restore that, it doesn't make sense have the option to say my ethnicity and doesn't have a filter with that.
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Chad Lang commented
Thing you can’t say that being gay is a biological thing and then turn around and say being attracted to black man or whoever is not that unfit just because someone doesn’t prefer someone who is Asian for instance or whoever or Caucasian does it mean to race is it just means you’re biologically not attracted to them that goes in hand-in-hand with which gay people around the world believe in what is true that they don’t choose to be gay just like you don’t shoot we are chat with you so having the Ethnicity filter makes sense
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Sclmeb31 Brown commented
Lol. I will say this just once and i hope that everyone including the law that no matter who you are or what you do every single person has paid for sex one way or the other, example going to the movies, dinner, trips, toys or just some cash we all pay so i would rather be upfront and honest about it and let them decide how they spend their money after all we all pay for someones time so enjoy it. As for racial issues it will only change when we all realize we are human and that we work together to protect humanity instead of hating each other, i prefer black men but im called racist 😔 . I disagree with one thing and that is removing or adding body parts that you were not designed to have and the body you were given is what you should still maintain, if changing was so simple i wouldnt be gay but its not a choice or my idea, i was born this way and if people want to ulter their body then either they dont like theirself and they misrepresent the truth of who they are by covering themselves up and its not okay , but again i would rather see peace among all humans rather than a battle that has been divided by a few greedy low life white men who controlled everything and i am white so that should tell you something
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Sean commented
@dre, don't know how you came to that conclusion. It's your right to clear the cascade of people you don't want to see or are not interested in. I do this all the time and if that means I spend a bit of time doing admin I am happy with that. They became woke and thought we must all fit into the same camp. They added Trans which is some screwed up social experiment that breeds homophobia to its core members who in turn resent trans. Great idea!
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Sean Allen commented
If I’m White and I am only into black, I should be able to further narrow my search.
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Sean Allen commented
Installing an ethnicity preference.
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Dre commented
They didnt remove it to be "woke" or to "bend to complaints" they removed it because if you spend more time looking on the app and blocking the hundreds of people you arent attracted to you're essentially handing them money. If you found the people you're attracted to faster you'll spend less time on the app. I just spend a couple minutes every day blocking the races and ages I'm not attracted to. Which makes me spend more time on the app not getting "some".
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Martin commented
I guess Grindr app is becoming very sensitive and less useful.
90% of us would like to be able to choose the race and many would like to have the dick size instead of doing something about it they just ask u to post your idea which is already posted by many here with many votes. It’s 2022 u need to improve your app not make it worse -
Andre Olsen commented
Barely any black people on in my neighborhood so even with the filter it wouldn't make much difference unless I was looking to travel. Buuut it would be nice for vacationing lol. Plus people from similar ethnical/racial backgrounds tend to have more in common so it only makes sense that a dating site would use this as a filter.
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Roger Gee commented
Loss of data: Nearby, Fresh, Viewers, Messages, Taps, Faves. Seems the App can't help but periodically keep destroying the data contained therein for no apparent reason, (back-ups not withstanding).
Connectivity: Periodically, swiping to refresh screens/tabs results in the Retry msg popping up over & over regardless of how many times you press Retry, it doesn't take.
It has a total zero effectiveness to restore any of the completely missing data from any of a # of tabs ranging from Nearby, Fresh, Viewers, Messages, Taps, Faves, as well as sending messeages.
Shutting down the app is insufficient as well. One must do any # of the following & hope data remains intact. Restart/Update/Uninstall App, or run updates for any of the following operating systems, Android/Samsung/PlayStore, etc., before the App returns to operating properly, with or without data being irretrievably wiped out, corrupted or needing to execute a Restore Back-up, or Data Download process.Build a better mousetrap ... your systems have issues that need addressing. Thank you.