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1. Ethnicity filter back

   Here are some arguments for reinstalling the ethnicity filter:

   1. Freedom of Choice and Preference: Each individual has personal preferences when it comes to selecting a partner, and ethnicity can be one of those preferences, just as age, location, or interests might be. Reinstating the filter would respect users' freedom to express these preferences without needing to block or filter people out afterward.

   2. Voluntary Disclosure: Users have the option to disclose their ethnicity on their profile. If a user chooses to disclose their ethnicity, they are willingly sharing it as part of their identity. Others should have the right to filter based on the information that is voluntarily provided. If users feel uncomfortable, they are free not to disclose their ethnicity.

   3. Avoiding Unintentional Harm: When the filter is removed, users who prefer specific ethnicities might resort to behaviors that can cause harm, such as blocking or excluding others after interactions. This can lead to rejection or awkwardness that could have been avoided with the filter in place. Providing a filter allows for more transparency and avoids negative social interactions later in the process.

   4. Cultural Compatibility: For many people, ethnicity is closely linked with cultural, religious, and familial values. Allowing users to filter based on ethnicity supports cultural compatibility, which can be a key factor in building lasting relationships. It’s not always about racial bias but shared backgrounds and traditions.

   5. Promoting Inclusivity and Diversity: While the removal of the filter may have been intended to avoid exclusion, it might ironically decrease the likelihood of diverse relationships forming. When users can filter according to their preferences, including ethnicity, they are likely to engage more genuinely with people they are interested in. Without it, people may be less inclined to explore profiles they find irrelevant, leading to less engagement overall.

   6. Users Can Already Block by Ethnicity: Even without the filter, people who hold prejudiced views can still exclude others based on ethnicity by manually blocking them after seeing their profiles. Therefore, the absence of the filter does not eliminate racial bias, but merely makes it less transparent. It is more beneficial to make these preferences explicit from the outset rather than fostering hidden forms of discrimination.

   7. Respecting Personal Agency: In a free society, personal choices, as long as they do not harm others, should be respected. Allowing users to filter based on ethnicity acknowledges that individuals have their own preferences and agency in selecting partners. For some, ethnicity might play a role in attraction, comfort, or compatibility, and that should not be dismissed or stigmatized.

   These arguments emphasize the importance of personal choice and transparency while acknowledging that people may have legitimate, non-racist reasons for using ethnicity as a filter in the context of social or romantic apps.

   If you disagree with these arguments, please be specific. Do not simply accuse others to be "racist".

   Here are some arguments for reinstalling the ethnicity filter:

   1. Freedom of Choice and Preference: Each individual has personal preferences when it comes to selecting a partner, and ethnicity can be one of those preferences, just as age, location, or interests might be. Reinstating the filter would respect users' freedom to express these preferences without needing to block or filter people out afterward.

   2. Voluntary Disclosure: Users have the option to disclose their ethnicity on their profile. If a user chooses to disclose their ethnicity, they are willingly sharing it as part of their identity. Others should have the right… more

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2. Do a Race Filter

   It’s a preference. There should be race filter available.

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3. STOP UNFAIRLY BANNING GAY MEN!!!

   I have been unfairly banned permanently for "hate speech". In reality I just said no the sexual advances from trans women.
   Those trans then started telling me to k!ll myself, to f#ck off and die, called me the F slur, called me bigoted and then threatened me and my family. I reported them and I received a message to "be kinder going foward" and when I reported a second time I was told "no action is being taken".
   Then I was suddenly banned for "hate speech". I was informed that I am permanently banned because grindr is a safe space for diversity. Do not make me laugh. Grindr was a space for GAY MEN but now we are being forced out of our space for trans people and women.
   Stop ignoring the concerns of gay men, start listening to us, stop immediately taking trans side, stop ignoring the reports from gay men about nasty abuse from trans people and women.
   Grindr us a disgusting sh!t covered shell of its former self. Women, trans people and trans worshippers have ruined yet another gay space.
   You should be ashamed of yourself.

   STOP BANNING US !!!!! and give me back my fxcking account while you're at it!!!

   I have been unfairly banned permanently for "hate speech". In reality I just said no the sexual advances from trans women.
   Those trans then started telling me to k!ll myself, to f#ck off and die, called me the F slur, called me bigoted and then threatened me and my family. I reported them and I received a message to "be kinder going foward" and when I reported a second time I was told "no action is being taken".
   Then I was suddenly banned for "hate speech". I was informed that I am permanently banned because grindr is a safe space… more

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4. iPad App Landscape Option — You can’t seriously not have this option for iPad, all iPad keyboards use landscape. Please fix.

   iPad App Landscape Option — You can’t seriously not have this option for iPad, all iPad keyboards use landscape. Please fix.

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5. Miss-gendering

   Hi. I’m really tired of being misgendered literally every single time I’m on the app it’s been getting honestly very upsetting and I’m tired of feeling like have no identity when I’m online. I don’t think that showing or pronouns on our profile is enough cause most people don’t even take 3 seconds of their time to read them so my idea is to add an “educational/emergency button” that dolls all over the globe like me can use when someone assumes that we all identify as gym bros. In all honesty I’m just in the app to find quality dick and not to have to explain my gender journey to 90% of folks there.
   This button can be there for everyone who sees themselves outside the binary and we can use it when someone miss-gender us. A friendly warning message should pop on the other persons screen letting them know that who they talking to is feeling triggered by their approach and maybe some little steps on how TO DO BETTER.
   Thank you for always having room for improvement and giving us this space to request features that could make the app a better place to spend our time and coin. Thanks!

   Hi. I’m really tired of being misgendered literally every single time I’m on the app it’s been getting honestly very upsetting and I’m tired of feeling like have no identity when I’m online. I don’t think that showing or pronouns on our profile is enough cause most people don’t even take 3 seconds of their time to read them so my idea is to add an “educational/emergency button” that dolls all over the globe like me can use when someone assumes that we all identify as gym bros. In all honesty I’m just in the app to find quality dick… more

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6. Photo Verification

   Having had my photos used on fake profiles as well as having been tricked using faked photos more times than I would like to admit I feel a photo verification process similar to Tinder’s is very necessary to the safety of users.

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7. Only allow verified profiles

   To avoid harassment and extortion, only verified profiles should be allowed in the app.

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8. ABDL filter for searching

   There is no filter for those who are ABDL. Why is there a filter for guys who like ws but not diapers? Some men are on here to find kink/fetish play partners.

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9. Add abdl, ab or little and maybe diapers cause dl is all rrady taken for down low

   Add abdl, ab or little and maybe diaper because dl is already taken by dow low

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10. Plz add chaser tag

    Chaser tag is missing

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11. Restore trans filter back

    Undo the update you did for trans filter it sucks didn't make it any easier just made it hard to find old setting was perfect and easier to use just 1 click. Please Undo that update

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12. Boost Popup is Intrusive.

    I get it. Boost is revenue for your company. But I am already s lying customer. Why do you pop it up when I'm in the middle of trying to type something and almost accidentally click it. If I wanted to boost then it should be in my settings and only display when I tap it. Now it just pops up at random times when I'm scrolling my grid and could cause unwanted taps. It is intrusive to throw a popup over top of a standard function such as scrolling my grid. I am a software engineer....for 1t years I've developed apps for desktops and mobile devices and INTRUSIVE POPUPS, especially for already paying customers is bad for business. It might even be the reason I cancel my membership. Noone likes having something thrown up in their face or popping up unexpectedly that could cause them to be charged 7.00 dollars.....and WHAT??? it just doesn't make sense. I'm paying you to give me the people that are nearby that I might waan talk to or meet, and you're cluttering my grid with people that are way too far away . First, I don't meet anyone that's over 30miles away because the percentage of those people saying they're coming to see you and NEVER SHOWING UP is increased exponentially.

    I get it. Boost is revenue for your company. But I am already s lying customer. Why do you pop it up when I'm in the middle of trying to type something and almost accidentally click it. If I wanted to boost then it should be in my settings and only display when I tap it. Now it just pops up at random times when I'm scrolling my grid and could cause unwanted taps. It is intrusive to throw a popup over top of a standard function such as scrolling my grid. I am a software engineer....for 1t years I've… more

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13. chat background and chat bubble color

    Give users the ability to change the chat background color and chat bubble color to be more discrete when using the app

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14. Option to disable album sharing for all users at once

    I have shared my album to so many users and if I want to stop sharing I have to click on each user's checkbox individually and then click on Stop Sharing.

    Please have option to remove album sharing to all users at once.

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15. Insane price increase

    Grinder just raised the price of my extra subscription from $99-$219… Has anyone else been hit by this crazy increase?

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16. Fake gps

    Please allow fake gps

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17. Restore fresh faces

    Please remove the limit on fresh faces. It was a really good way to meet with people that were far from you. Putting a limit on this on top of all the other restrictions; when it was free at first, is kinda shitty.

    There was an update where fresh faces was an unlimited grid. That really helped get connections that were interesting and although distant it was fun.
    Fresh faces also really help users who don’t have many profiles near them or users who dont find their “type” near them.

    Now the fresh faces grid is limited to just 6 profiles and it’s kind of restrictive being limited to the same few profiles around you.

    Please remove the limit on fresh faces. It was a really good way to meet with people that were far from you. Putting a limit on this on top of all the other restrictions; when it was free at first, is kinda shitty.

    There was an update where fresh faces was an unlimited grid. That really helped get connections that were interesting and although distant it was fun.
    Fresh faces also really help users who don’t have many profiles near them or users who dont find their “type” near them.

    Now the fresh faces grid is limited to just 6… more

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18. Please stop letting advertisers post ads saying “murder - do it!” (From something called bitlife). Creepy AF

    Please stop letting advertisers post ads saying “murder - do it!” (From something called bitlife). Creepy AF

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19. Remove the sound of the Ads

    I hate that i try to listen to music and there is 2 different ads playing in the background

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20. Mejorar el bloqueo de las cuentas

    Al bloquear perfiles de personas que no quiero ver, después de unas horas el perfil que bloqueo vuelve a aparecer en la cuadrícula de usuarios como sino fuese bloqueado,esto es muy malo, porque gente que te acosa y la bloqueas,vuelve a aparecer y te sigue acosando.

    Estoy muy enojado con esta falla.

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