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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Guys Grindr doesn't care about us, you have to cancel your subscription I suggest also to contact the CEO on his social media https://www.linkedin.com/in/bonforte/

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    GRIND HAS FAILED.

    It's very arrogant for woke Grindr CEO Jeff Bonforte to make a favour to the fascist marxist racist Black Lives Matter movement by lecturing us from his comfy office in California on who we should have a romance with and to control who is going to show up on OUR grid on OUR phones instead of letting us chose who are OUR potential MATCHES as paying members (I already cancelled don’t count me in).

    So basically it turns out similarly to Facebook that Grindr is not the product: WE ARE THE PRODUCT, the product of a concealed radical left wing woke social engineering project trying to undermine freedom of choice and bully the users to chat with people they don’t want to chat with because the potential MATCHES are HIDDEN AWAY.

    Jeff Bonforte hasn't got the faintest idea of what the USER REQUIREMENTS are, what Grindr is as a product and hasn’t got a grasp of the concept of a product from the marketing point of view at all.

    The point of Grindr is helping US to find a MATCH for romance, so we need to be able to filter OUR TYPE (not Jeff Bonforte's type) that we will finally bring to OUR home and OUR bed (not Jeff Bonforte's bed).

    But my grid is just full of background noise to put it mildly, all sort of trans, straight men looking for trans and a track load of people I'm not interested in as I'm looking for men of a bunch of ethnicities or so and that's it, I DO NOT WANT TO SEE ANYONE ELSE IN MY GRID because they will NEVER EVER be boyfriend material and I DECIDE who is going to be my partner, not Jeff Bonforte or the radical leftists domestic terrorists of Black Lives Matter.

    I'm pretty sure that Jeff Bonforte was thinking that discriminating against our sexual preferences and freedom of choice about our sexual partners would have lured us into the highest tier subscription because with an infinite scrolling coming at a very steep price at the end we would find what we're looking for.

    This is impractical because it takes ages and quite a lot of time analysing each tile for each page, it's absurd, the information is ALREADY THERE, but I'm negated to access it because some bigots decided that's wrong, the only solution is a filter as any other effective MATCH making tool does.

    If someone doesn’t want to be filtered in for any ideological or personal reasons, they could just have a setting that say “don’t appear in ethnicity filter results”.

    The result of this STUPID choice to remove the filter has led to:

    1. Users are now FORCED to use the BLOCK feature to make space for potential MATCHES on the GRID therefore blocking people they would have rather not blocked
    2. Multi-ethnic mixing is NOT ALLOWED because users of a “majority” ethnic group can’t look for a “minority” ethnic group anymore and viceversa
    3. RADICALISATION of users and further division across racial lines of society that’s basically the purpose of organisations like Black Lives Matter: divide society on racial lines to rule it.
    4. Halted intercultural mixing: i.e. I can’t easily find middle eastern men anymore on Grindr I’m sure lots of people have similar issues
    5. Putting the users in dangerous situations: I personally got in physical danger by hanging out in areas of the city where homosexuals are seen by most men as an abomination of nature while I was looking for what I could easily find on Grindr using the filter. Oh Thank you Jeff for that one!

    So instead of being paying members chatting to our matches amongst the ethnic groups we’re tying to mingle with, we are redirected here to read posts of people that would be better not advertising themselves on Grindr so they wouldn’t come here to moan about their perception of feeling discriminated, fetishised and all that sort of nonsense that to cater for basically made the application a piece of CRAP.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Don't feel like an ass, it's your human right because woke Grindr's CEO Jeff Bonforte by the height of his moral stature and his comfy office in democrat California pretends to lecture you on who you should have a romance with and that's WRONG! I bought a gayromeo yearly subscription and I can use the ethnicity filter to see ONLY potential matches on my grid, not sure if it would work for you as it's mainly european based. I suggest you to search all posts like yours here in uservoice and vote for them because Grindr is actively ignoring these requests.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    I'm caucasian and I want to filter too, or I'm the only one to be racist and fetishisizer?

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    I suggest you to use the search box here in user voice and search for ethnic or ethnicity and vote for all the posts like yours that are asking to reinstate the ethnicity filter. Looks like Grindr is actively ignoring this request that keeps coming over different posts because they're feeding on radical left wing facist Black Lives Matter movements who want to lecture the users of grindr about who we should have a romance with and if we don't then accuse us of being racist. My grid now is full of people I don't care to meet either because they're not my type, often it's ethnicity or even trans and straight people looking for trans. Grindr's CEO Jeff Bonforte believe to be morally superior to the rest of the world so it's making IMPOSSIBLE something that was already very hard, that is to find a MATCH, a person that I HAVE CHOSE and that HE SHOULDN'T CHOSE ON MY BEHALF.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    You need to go search for ethnicity or ethnic here in the search box in user voice and vote all the other posts asking to reinstate the ethnicity filter. It's pretty clear Grindr is on a woke mission trying to lecture their users on who they should have a romance with by visually forcing in the grid everybody except the ethnicities they're looking for.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    They will accuse you of being a "fetishist" of whatever ethnicity group you mingle with. Grindr has gone insane. I'm on gay romeo now, I paid the early subscription, I can use the ethnicity filter in order to see ONLY potentially matches instead of seeing MOSTLY not matches as it happens in Grindr.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    So basically we can filter out only white people, that's not racist no? ah of course... because accordingly to the Black Lives Matter experts they also codified it basically a black gay man can say "NO WHITES" and that wouldn't be racist because in the collective imagination white men were the only slave owners, which is not even true as many black men were slave owners as well as arabs and who knows what... slavery was globally spread since ancient times. So now try to tell me that Black Lives Matter is not a racist movement ahahha

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    why do you want to help Grindr to keep discriminating against their users' sexual preferences? I don't mind black men at all but to stick to your example, if someone doesn't want to have a romance with black men because he only fancies porcelain white english boys why the hell you should force black men on his grid?

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    They removed it because some political activists belonging to the fascist marxist Black Lives Matter movements in the United States claimed it is racist to chose your romance by ethnic group. I know it sounds ridiculous but it's very concerning as this is cropping up also in some supposedly """scientific papers""". So basically there is some woke superior race of left wing men that want to lecture you on who you should be having a romance and sleep with. Nothing wrong as long people like to waste their time discussing about this (de gustibus non est disputandum), the problem comes when this put limitation on our free choice and discriminate against our sexual preferences. I suggest you to search and votes for all the feed back suggestions like your by searching ethnicity or ethnicities in the search box.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Done already. I bought gay romeo yearly subscription. The ethnicity filter is unlimited, they don't try to lecture you on who you should have a romance with by controlling the ethnicity of the people they will show you on the grid, you chose.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Exactly. The ethnicity filter would help a caucasian male like me to mingle with middle eastern men that I'm particularly fond of and it would be very positive in terms of inter ethnic relationships. This is healthy, natural and sane. This is NOT racism and it is NOT fetishisation, thinking otherwise is insane. The stupid choice of Grindr CEO Jeff Bonforte from his comfy office in woke California to force me to fill up the grid with all the people *HE* wants me to see and that I do now want to see on a dating app is totally failing the product that's supposed to be used to find a MATCH and not to find everybody else who is not a match. At that point I can go to Facebook or any gay bar and it would be much more effective and fun. All this happening because woke Jeff Bonforte wanted to bow to the fascist marxist racist movement of Black Lives Matters. Jeff your app is global, keep your woke politics in California! You won't see my money back, I just bought a yearly subscription to gay romeo where I can use the ethnicity filter as much as I can.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Well put! bear in mind that everyone has got the right to their sexual preferences, not only those who would be classed as "minority". Caucasian people shouldn't be forbidden to use the ethnicity filter. They're not going to see my money until the ethnicity filter is back because currently they're failing to help me finding a match.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    The ethnicity filter should be available to anyone regardless if they are considered minority or not. Sexual desire is not racist and not fetish. If I wanted to connect with the community of middle easterns while not being myself from the middle east I shouldn't be stopped doing so, I shouldn't be criminalised and accused of being racist and fetishist. If I wanted to remove anyone else the same applies. The only reason the filter has been removed is to cater a left wing stupidly woke agenda from the senior management in California that pretend to lecture us on who we should have romance and sex with. Grindr is forcing us to meet people we don't want to meet. We are being used by Grindr as a social engineering project. Grindr is not the product, we are THE PRODUCT.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    For the HIV status you can select all tribes except for Poz.

    The removal of the ethnicity filter has been a reckless decision and very offensive attempt to school their users on who they are allowed to connect with.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Grindr board of directors is pandering the most racist and fascist left wing activists, those ones who want to get into your bed and accusing you of being racist if they don't sleep with ethnic group X, Y or Z.

    It's the new trend of being progressing, is all about mind control and various control freakeries, grindr deserve to disappear from the market for schooling they users about who they should connect with.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    why only minorities should have the minority privilege of being entitled to have sexual preferences and why any one else should be denied the most natural and basic fact of life?

    what constitutes minority? in a white area a white man is not allowed to search for mixed race guys? so a white mean living in a mixed race area shouldn't be allowed to search for white guys?

    who is going to police this? and what if the ethnic composition of the grid changes over time?

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Spot on! Regarding dating and sexual desire, people have preferences and these are undebatable. Black people are being VICTIMISED and EXPLOITED by the political left, mostly white people as the original author said, in order to bring forward their sick, manipulative and toxic social engineering agenda which now consists of banning sexual preferences, criminalising desire and FORCING anyone to spend their energies to connect with the people they do not want to connect with, instead of searching for a matching partner. This is totally sick and must stop now.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    SCRUFF is going to put back the ethnic filter, I sent a message to the support team and they replied that they're working on that. I guess they have to find out a way to RIGHTFULLY bring back the ethnicity filter without calling it ethnicity filter so that the people who pretend to police the sexual preferences of the gay world don't have a foothold to start another witch hunt.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Why only POC should have the privilege of searching for an ethnic group?
    Why grindr should discriminate on the basis of race forbidding any non POC user to user the ethnicity filter?
    I support you as long as the ethnicity filter is bring back universally.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    I support you as long as the ethnic filter is universally reinstate to be used by any user of any ethnic group.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Why POC should have the privilege of filtering by ethnic group?
    Why on the basis on my race I am denied my HUMAN RIGHT of being able to chose who I would like to connect with?
    Ethnicity filter should be back universally for everybody, then if grindr decides that requires a fee that's fine.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    I agree I don't understand why you are so prejudiced and hateful against other users who are trying to narrow down the result search without harming you or anyone else, why someone who is looking for an asian is necessarily a white man looking for an "exotic bite-sized snack"? You're being racist and tarring all white men with the same brush, what if instead they're looking for a romance?

    The very first step is to stop judging people's ****** preferences implying that if you're looking to connect with an ethnic group rather than another one you are necessarily racist.

    Grindr as a dating platform should advocated this, people need to get a grip with reality.

    Anyone who think that being ignored by someone is necessarily racist without having any evidence should stop looking for a partner online or in the real life and have therapy.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    "" difference between a minority’s preference and an oppressive racial group’s “preference” ""

    Ah fantastic! So now if a black man is only looking for black man not only it's not racist but it's also white men fault?

    I can't believe Grindr would support this racist position!

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    why the ethnic filter should be a privilege of POC?
    why a white man shouldn't be able to connect only with POC?
    why a white man shouldn't be able to connect only with white man?
    why this discrimination against white men?

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Eh no dear, everybody is entitled to their own preferences, they are not debatable they’re personal not something that can be policed by anyone else. Spare the studies, they’re totally irrelevant.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Indeed

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Why removing the filter? We are not entitled to our preferences now? How am I going to find the guys I really like, with the crystal ball? Why imposing to millions of users the requirement of a small fanatic minority?

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    “ This disproportionally affects black, brown, and Asian men when the goal should be a safe space” reading the comments of black brown and asian men they are all enraged by this change. This is an ideological point being shoved down our throats. It’s wrong.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    How the ethnic group filter literally enable racism? No one can police anyone else ****** preferences, I’m looking for Middle Eastern because of their culture, language; look, how this could be remotely racist? The main question though is which superior being are you to impose everyone else on earth your personal opinion and force and coerce them YOUR WAY in their quest to find a partner?

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Do you realise that you are racist saying “ White South Africans are *very" racist“ LOL

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    No one is targeting minority groups for criminal acts. The fact that there is a potential doesn’t mean we should erase our ****** preferences, I can’t find my Middle Eastern guys anymore now. Put the filter back!

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    I’m a Caucasian guy and I totally understand you and support you. This has been a big mistake of grindr to meddle with hard left politics and impose their biased views to all of us. Unfortunately now I’m stuck as against our will, they clearly treat us like kids or trash while they’re the enlightened élite. I stupidly bought the yearly subscription. GUYS DON’T BUY THE YEARLY SUBSCRIPTION!

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    You’re so progressive that you are forcing your political views on me, you are oppressing my ****** preferences, grindr once was a free world where I could find Middle Eastern guys using the filter, now instead it disappeared, you forcibly impose on me the request of some minority group that have the misled opinion that someone may not have ethnic ****** preferences. Stop censoring people stop invading my ****** life, having to tap each single tile in order to find what I’m looking for it’s not clever, it’s plain stupid.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Wrong. I'm not a "business" I'm a human being it's my HUMAN RIGHT to decide the ethnicity (if I want to) of who I'm going to have a romance with on grindr as everywhere else. This is a DATING app. The PURPOSE of this app is to find a MATCH. Some people are particularly fond of people of some ethnic groups (theirs or others), this is normal, natural, legal, it's not racist and it's not a fetish. Therefore those users should have total control of the ethnicities shown in their grid because that's the PURPOSE of the application. Amazing how you pretend to fight discrimination while discriminating user sexual preferences.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    "Cas commented · January 12, 2021 1:46 PM · Flag as inappropriate
    I really hate this idea. I already hate that chasers use the 'trans' tribe to seek out trans people. This would only encourage chasers to think its okay to fetishize(?) trans people."

    I'm missing something, wasn't grindr a dating app? shouldn't people look for what they're looking for? or probably Cas thinks that a man fancy trans should refrain to look for them and force himself to date a hairy butch manly man? Can we also please stop using this ideological construct of fetishisation in this manner as it makes no sense?

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    JeepBear74 this is a gay DATING application not a political manifesto. No user has to "CHANGE" their sexual preferences and desires. GRINDR HAS TO CHANGE TO CATER TO HIS USERS. We shouldn't be the product of a social engineering project. The product is Grindr and the service is helping us to FILTER OUT ANYONE we are not interested in order to find THE MATCH. This are the FACTS. Anything else is STUPID WOKE RADICAL LEFT WING IDEOLOGY emanating from far away in California. And put back that bloody ethnic filter if you want to see my money ever again!

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    It's not true that people are not bothered to reject others with words. The problem is that lots of people have problems with being rejected with words therefore after a track record of being bullied and verbally abused people simply stop replying. I totally support a Not Interested tap option. This should also stop notification from messages and tap sent by the ignored people.

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    Anonymous commented  · 

    Agree, has to contain the ethnicity filter too, bring back the ethnicity filter, we need it to narrow down the result set, this is a dating application not facebook.

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