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1. Languages Spoken

   Create a feature that allows users to select the languages they speak so that they can filter who they're able to communicate with. This also prevents the hassle of trying to figure out who speaks your language and who's using an online translator or who just ignored your message because the other person didn't understand you due to a language barrier. Furthermore, in the event that you decide to meet up with someone where there's no wifi connection, and this person doesn't speak your language, everything will be lost in translation. While a person's location does help to provide context clues, it doesn't always provide us with the information about what languages the other party speaks.

   Create a feature that allows users to select the languages they speak so that they can filter who they're able to communicate with. This also prevents the hassle of trying to figure out who speaks your language and who's using an online translator or who just ignored your message because the other person didn't understand you due to a language barrier. Furthermore, in the event that you decide to meet up with someone where there's no wifi connection, and this person doesn't speak your language, everything will be lost in translation. While a person's location does help to provide context… more

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2. Require profile picture

   75% of the app is closeted profiles its absurd. People should be inactive till they upload a profile picture. I don't feel safe or proud of a community that's a sea of endless black screens who speak in vague and shady ways. Or make new profiles to harass people after being blocked and you don't know who you've spoken to before because everyone has the same looking profile. Do better.

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3. T4T filter

   Have a "t4t" tribe filter so trans people can look for other trans people rather than having a bunch of (gross) cis chasers pop up when selecting the "trans" tribe

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4. Ethnicity filter back

   Here are some arguments for reinstalling the ethnicity filter:

   1. Freedom of Choice and Preference: Each individual has personal preferences when it comes to selecting a partner, and ethnicity can be one of those preferences, just as age, location, or interests might be. Reinstating the filter would respect users' freedom to express these preferences without needing to block or filter people out afterward.

   2. Voluntary Disclosure: Users have the option to disclose their ethnicity on their profile. If a user chooses to disclose their ethnicity, they are willingly sharing it as part of their identity. Others should have the right to filter based on the information that is voluntarily provided. If users feel uncomfortable, they are free not to disclose their ethnicity.

   3. Avoiding Unintentional Harm: When the filter is removed, users who prefer specific ethnicities might resort to behaviors that can cause harm, such as blocking or excluding others after interactions. This can lead to rejection or awkwardness that could have been avoided with the filter in place. Providing a filter allows for more transparency and avoids negative social interactions later in the process.

   4. Cultural Compatibility: For many people, ethnicity is closely linked with cultural, religious, and familial values. Allowing users to filter based on ethnicity supports cultural compatibility, which can be a key factor in building lasting relationships. It’s not always about racial bias but shared backgrounds and traditions.

   5. Promoting Inclusivity and Diversity: While the removal of the filter may have been intended to avoid exclusion, it might ironically decrease the likelihood of diverse relationships forming. When users can filter according to their preferences, including ethnicity, they are likely to engage more genuinely with people they are interested in. Without it, people may be less inclined to explore profiles they find irrelevant, leading to less engagement overall.

   6. Users Can Already Block by Ethnicity: Even without the filter, people who hold prejudiced views can still exclude others based on ethnicity by manually blocking them after seeing their profiles. Therefore, the absence of the filter does not eliminate racial bias, but merely makes it less transparent. It is more beneficial to make these preferences explicit from the outset rather than fostering hidden forms of discrimination.

   7. Respecting Personal Agency: In a free society, personal choices, as long as they do not harm others, should be respected. Allowing users to filter based on ethnicity acknowledges that individuals have their own preferences and agency in selecting partners. For some, ethnicity might play a role in attraction, comfort, or compatibility, and that should not be dismissed or stigmatized.

   These arguments emphasize the importance of personal choice and transparency while acknowledging that people may have legitimate, non-racist reasons for using ethnicity as a filter in the context of social or romantic apps.

   If you disagree with these arguments, please be specific. Do not simply accuse others to be "racist".

   Here are some arguments for reinstalling the ethnicity filter:

   1. Freedom of Choice and Preference: Each individual has personal preferences when it comes to selecting a partner, and ethnicity can be one of those preferences, just as age, location, or interests might be. Reinstating the filter would respect users' freedom to express these preferences without needing to block or filter people out afterward.

   2. Voluntary Disclosure: Users have the option to disclose their ethnicity on their profile. If a user chooses to disclose their ethnicity, they are willingly sharing it as part of their identity. Others should have the right… more

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5. Do a Race Filter

   It’s a preference. There should be race filter available.

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6. Tags for ABDL and Diapers. There should be more ways to filter

   Existing tags don't cover ABDL community. WS and underwear is not the same thing. And ABDL is kind of diverse. Should also be a way to distinguish the adult babies from the diaper lovers. ABDL is definitely not for everyone. So would be extremely useful to be able to identify exactly instead of having to approximate with other tags. Especially when people don't fill out their profiles

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7. women

   being able to filter out women.. there are more female identifying persons on my grindr grid then male... gay females make me not horny.. ability to filter out ir block be nice .. i will block or hide and they still are there just in different spot on my grid

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8. Ethnicity

   Argument: Why Choosing Your Ethnicity on Grindr Is Not Racism

   When users on Grindr or similar dating apps indicate their preferences regarding ethnicity, it's important to differentiate between personal preferences and racism. Here are several reasons why such preferences, when exercised respectfully and with awareness, do not necessarily equate to racism:

   1. Personal Preference Is a Natural Part of Attraction
      People are naturally attracted to others based on a variety of factors, including physical appearance, personality, cultural background, and, yes, ethnicity. Ethnicity can shape a person’s identity, including cultural practices, language, and even physical features, which may influence what an individual finds attractive. Just as someone might have a preference for a certain hair color or body type, a preference for ethnicity is simply part of the broader spectrum of personal attraction.

   2. Ethnicity and Cultural Connection
      For many, shared ethnic background can be important because it aligns with shared experiences, values, and cultural references. People might feel more comfortable dating within their own ethnic group because it provides a sense of shared history, common ground, and mutual understanding. In this context, the choice is less about exclusion and more about seeking someone with a similar background and experiences.

   3. Cultural Identity and Pride
      Ethnicity often ties into a person's sense of cultural pride and identity. Just as a person might want to connect with someone who shares their national or regional identity, ethnicity on dating apps can be a way to celebrate and connect with others who identify similarly. For instance, a person who identifies strongly with their Latinx, Black, or Asian heritage might prefer to meet people who understand and appreciate the nuances of that identity. This preference is a personal choice, not a racial judgment or exclusion of others.

   4. Not About Stereotyping or Generalizing
      Having a preference for a specific ethnicity does not automatically equate to racism. Racism is rooted in prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed at someone based on their race. However, choosing to date people of a certain ethnicity (or avoiding others) is a matter of individual choice, and it doesn’t inherently involve prejudging or demeaning others based on their race. The key difference here is the intent: racism is about dehumanizing or belittling others, whereas personal attraction is about individual taste.

   5. Acknowledging Historical Context
      Many critics argue that preferences in dating apps reflect the broader societal dynamics of racial inequality or colonial histories. While it's true that racism is entrenched in many societies, acknowledging this historical context should not automatically reduce personal preferences to acts of racial bias. People’s preferences can exist alongside their broader commitment to fighting racism. For example, someone may have preferences based on ethnicity but still actively engage in anti-racist efforts in other aspects of their life, such as through social activism or supporting diversity.

   6. Ethnic Preferences Can Be Based on Positive Experience, Not Exclusion
      Often, preferences for certain ethnicities are not driven by negative stereotypes but rather positive experiences or attractions. For example, someone may prefer dating people of a particular ethnic group because they’ve had past relationships with individuals from that group and found those connections fulfilling. This positive reinforcement doesn't constitute racism; it simply reflects an individual’s dating history and experiences.

   7. A Matter of Choice and Freedom
      Dating preferences are personal and subjective. Just as people choose to date based on physical appearance, personality, or shared values, they also choose based on ethnicity. In a free society, individuals have the autonomy to make choices that best reflect their personal desires. Imposing blanket rules that dictate who someone can or cannot date based on their preferences infringes on this personal freedom.

   Conclusion:
   While it's crucial to approach conversations about ethnicity with sensitivity, the act of choosing one's ethnicity on Grindr or similar apps is not inherently racist. It is simply a form of personal preference rooted in attraction, cultural identity, and shared experiences. Racism involves harmful attitudes, discrimination, and prejudice, which are fundamentally different from personal dating preferences. As long as preferences are communicated respectfully and without demeaning others, choosing one's ethnicity is an individual decision that does not equate to racism.

   Argument: Why Choosing Your Ethnicity on Grindr Is Not Racism

   When users on Grindr or similar dating apps indicate their preferences regarding ethnicity, it's important to differentiate between personal preferences and racism. Here are several reasons why such preferences, when exercised respectfully and with awareness, do not necessarily equate to racism:

   1. Personal Preference Is a Natural Part of Attraction
      People are naturally attracted to others based on a variety of factors, including physical appearance, personality, cultural background, and, yes, ethnicity. Ethnicity can shape a person’s identity, including cultural practices, language, and even physical features, which may influence what an individual… more

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9. There is STILL NO TAG FOR CHASER WHY?

   There is a chub category there needs to be a CHASER tag so that Chubs can search ppl interested in them....this has been requested multiple times by multiple ppl this is VERY discriminatory its an easy fix....trans...cis...biqueer all these diff tags have been added but CHASER hasnt been added after all this time

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10. Stop females, Ts, opposite sex showing in grid

    While I can not stop anyone from joining Grindr at least provide the option of allowing me to pick who shows up in my grid. Maybe in the profile filter being able to pick [all] males or other sex(es) as an option.

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11. Gender/Sexual Orientation Filter

    1) Please add an option for users to indicate their gender (Man, Woman, Trans Woman, etc.) and sexual orientation (Gay, Bi, Straight, etc.) on their profile.

    2)Allow users to search and filter for what they're looking for based on these criteria. For example, "looking for gay men", etc. The grid will only display results based on these criteria.

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12. No Women!!!

    Please build a new website for men and women called screwed with the same format!!!!!!!

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13. Tags don’t differentiate between describing you and looking for. For example the tag “hung” could mean I am hung or I’m looking for hung.

    Separate tags into two sections: my description and looking for. Also “thick” is confusing. Could mean girthy or big-bodied.

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14. Age range

    Fucking free version you can only search for 4 years. Why the fuck do you keep making it harder to use your app. Wtf. Stop forcing people to pay for your shit.

    Bring back the old version where you could search for whatever age you want without limiting you to 4.

    Also, just in general, stop changing free features to paid ones.

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15. taps by distance

    Why can’t we sort taps and messages by distance? I want to filter messages by guys near me- not 50 miles away first and then 50 feet away next.

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16. Lack of search option on paid version. This is literally the only i app I use without a basic search option

    How can an app that has a paid version not have even the most basic search options?

    Just the ability to search for user names would be very helpful!

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17. Make grindr For gay Men

    I Keep seeing trans and fem only if a man is not gay or bi then they should not be in a app that was originally for gay men straight guys and Trans have there own sites so it's only fair we have grindr
    And there should be a ban for anyone who tries to join a site for gay men I'm seeing females on here for goodness sake it's not right please make this app for gays bisexuality and curious str8 only

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18. Make a chaser tag

    There is already a tag for chub - but not for chaser. It's like having a "top" tag without a "bottom" tag.

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19. Add a Local Events Tab!

    Add a tab that caters to the community where users much like fet life can host events and publish them on there. Like here in California there are a ton of events! Especially in LA and SF. We also have the Power Exchange here in SF that caters to people and the Citadel that caters to the BDSM community. steam works in Berkeley every night has a theme night that caters to gay men and on genderF%#k night it caters to trans individuals. There are so many events that the community’s and businesses that this would really benefit from. Like people couple publish about local orgies or swinger parties that cater to all genders and types of people. Much like other hookup/sexual based dating sites do. This is a good opportunity to include people to potentially meeting more people through user based events located in the app that the user base creates and other business’s that want to toss an event out there that caters to theses specific groups of people.

    Add a tab that caters to the community where users much like fet life can host events and publish them on there. Like here in California there are a ton of events! Especially in LA and SF. We also have the Power Exchange here in SF that caters to people and the Citadel that caters to the BDSM community. steam works in Berkeley every night has a theme night that caters to gay men and on genderF%#k night it caters to trans individuals. There are so many events that the community’s and businesses that this would really benefit from. Like… more

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20. No women

    Please build a website for men and women called screwed using the same format!!!

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