Pashtet Leon,

I cannot answer your question because I’ve never seen that. To the contrary I’ve have had gay guys say they will never date me because I drink whiskey, watch horror movies and listen to rock music. I’ve met gay guys that want a top boyfriend that listens to Madonna, Cher or whatever pop singer they’re into, watched shows about trans and romantic comedies and drinks sugar filled martinis. Why are so many of the fems and trans so hateful of the gays who aren’t a walking stereotype?

Most gay men are abusive towards feminine gays and trans people...why?

I just deleted my account and forgetting about Grind'r. In Singapore there's so many bullies and toxicity within the community and society, that's what I'm facing everyday. Even authorities can't do much.

So this was my idea. I have since been banned for "hate speech" towards trannys. In reality I simply said no to their sexual advances.
I am now permanently banned. No one from grindr will even acknowledge my emails and messages.

I suggest gay men completely abandon this shitshow app.

I completely agree with you. If men who likes trans/CDs. Grindr should create a chat room for them. I see more man looking for trans/CDs than looking for another man. To be honest I started to block every single one. I'm not against them but they should have their own place.

Too many trans/CD's in here. They need their own room. As a gay man it is hard to find a man who wants a man anymore. These trans/CDs are ruining it for all of us. If a man wants a girl with a dick he should have his own place to find them.

Definitely not “all you find are trans and cis women”, but yes there are a lot of them when there used to be none, and they are extremely annoying just by being there. Everyone knows it’s an app for men who are looking for men, nothing more nothing less. That Grindr tolerates and even now provides the option to sign up as a woman says a lot about how much value they place on the MEN who make this app anything at all in the first place. Maybe losing a significant portion of their user base to better competition will knock some sense into their heads…or at least some teeth out of their mouths.

So glad I’m not the only one … really starting to despise them for this.

I a hundred percent support this. I'm tired of trans people and females messaging me when i'm a gay man on what was supposed to be a gay chat app. They're just simply is nowhere for gay men any More. I'm not interested in female, I'm not interested in feminine. I'm not interested in something they can't decide what gender it is. I want actual men, an actual masculine male. why can't we have our own space? ? Why do women or things that think they're Women have to come in and always destroy everything. Being gay has nothing to do with females. The term gay means homosexual male. Give us an option to block all the trans and women, so we don't have to see them and deal with them without having to do it individually.

More and more are saying provide filters or splitting app than those who are saying “delete this”.

So obviously it’s bigger an issue than realized.

Do respect your opinion sir..definitely not dismissing it.

They can't do anything about it lmao its a user's problem.
Men looking for women cis or trans are not gonna be texting you either way.
The company banning women is gonna reduce the number of their users. I can assure a 100 respectful trans women is better than your ass asking for online segregation. Delete this flop

Hello everyone here

Yes!

Exactly. i don’t understand what heterosexual men and women are doing here