Add 'kink' to tribes!
There is the leather option but that is just 1 kind of kink so it's a very narrow field. A few people use that tribe for kink but alot of people are intimidated by this because they aren't into leather and see it as "too extreme" for them. I'm surprised it hasn't already been made into a tribe if im honest!
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Jian C commented
Slam 嘉義?
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Jose Luis commented
Muchas gracias
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Nuno commented
Still waiting... Boring, or app dev died?
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Mark Spalding commented
I couldn't agree more to all of the above.
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Vicențiu-Cristian Ștefanescu commented
I have a fetish for black dudes with hairy feet and i think it would be a good ideea to implemate this in your app
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Xander commented
Yes, I second this. I’d quite like the tag “Love” on my profile, but it’s not available. There’s something slightly Orwellian in the limiting of our speech.
I am frustrated that Grindr continues to perpetuate the idea of hook up culture, and shepherds people, as Elliott N says above, sometimes into a sex/kink way of life.
And people follow Grindr’s subtle influence, as though they’re sheep. That’s a big responsibility on you guys.
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Altimaaa_RL commented
It would be great if u guys added fetish filter, even if it's only an XTRA or Unlimites option, i will buy it for sure !
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RS commented
I do not think this is the rout grindr should take for match making. Kink is too diverse and expressed diversely as well as being an intimate activity.
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Don Leonard-Murphey commented
Or perhaps I have a kink button or something that you can have separate from the vanilla aspect entirely too many labels though.
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Elliott N commented
Include tags involving more topics/subjects/pastimes instead of just kink preferences to give a more well rounded view of ourselves and others
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Boisex123 Romeo commented
Yes please.. tired of vanilla guyz.. and fetishes
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Nuno commented
Too slow to create tribes??? For that and because a lot of spam i dnt pay for premium, the dev its too slow.
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Anonymous commented
there’s lots of kink/fetish language that floats around. F@g, B!tch, daddy, tr@nny, etc are all used by different people at different times. Sometimes by people who are advocates for the communities whose derrogatory language they’re appropriating, others not so much.
That got me thinking, I wonder if there’d be a way to not silence this kink play while also maintaining the safety and integrity of users. Like, maybe there’d be a “safeword/safety/negotiation mode” with slightly different lighting/formatting where someone could say “(hey, I’m really into this and you, but here are my boundaries)” or like “you can call me tranny/fag if it gets you off, and I’m attracted to you, but that’s not really my thing.”
I imagine this would have to be a mode of communication rather than a boundaries list though because kink can be SOO nuanced. I also think things like read reciepts might be important, granted that feature already exists. maybe a green light, ✅ type agreement thing? I feel like the fantasy is played frequently and that shouldn’t be squelched (sometimes i even think a discussion of condom use can kill a vibe, which is SO DUMB) so having a dialogue box that can be more obstructed from the fantasy language of hookup culture, gives the opportunity for those boundaries to be negotiated, but doesn’t kill the mood. Maybe you have to elect to open that dialogue box, so people can come to it on their own terms and engagement. idk. just a thought.
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Anonymous commented
Add a “kink” option to the app such as, armpit fetish, foot fetish, FF, spit, golden shower etc
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Darrr commented
Put a fetish section in your profile that lets you see what you’re into and what other people are into. Like kissing, dominant ***, small dicks, big dicks, chaser, feet, ect.... just to show what someone is into without asking about it.
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Anonymous commented
The profile section needs far more categories (cut/uncut, size, hairy/trimmed/shaved, kinks, etc. ) and we should be able to filter using ALL categories. And yes, this should include gender and status. It’s great that you’ve made the app more inclusive but that inclusiveness shouldn’t prevent us from searching for what we want.