Steve Healey
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To reiterate. I don't really care if someone is trans or not. A gay men's hookup app should be for gay men. Straight people should have their own. And same for lesbian, trans, furries, fetish specific groups, swingers.
There will never be a perfectly described "let everyone have their own" that is works. It's going to get thought of like it's a separate but equal thing. And that's not the lense I am talking through. Understand what I'm trying to say and stop getting stuck on a word choice you don't agree with. Making everythingn be an insult really just makes nothing an insult and brings about a lack of others caring.
It's about going to the pet department to buy cat food. You go up to the shelf and see the tag on the shelf describing the item. Look at the item and it's rabbit food. You went to the cat food place for cat food, not rabbit food. There's a spot that people wanting rabbit food can go to get rabbit food. Most people coming to this spot for cat food don't have a use for rabbit food and are not happy about having to dig through stuff that's not cat food in order to find what options of cat food are available.
The apps are like departments at a store. You go to the section of the things you want. And sometimes something is in a place that you didn't expect. And that's cool, sometimes things can work surprisingly well when found in with something new. And you can go to that section later on.
But that's the here or there setting. If EVERYTHING in the entire store was just randomly placed anywhere. Sometimes with something similar, usually not, shuffled and random without a plan or reason -ifs frustrating and you won't want to waste your time digging through the stuff you don't want.
It's not discrimination to not be attracted to someone. I don't care if it's that you don't go for white guys, or black girls don't catch your interest, or you just don't see yourself with a person who is taller than you. Focusing on the type of person that has the look that makes your dick wiggle most often is not discriminating. Stop acting like being attracted to furry chested white men with beards automatically means that you're racist because you prefer to focus your attention on furry white guys that have facial hair and don't talk much to anyone not fitting that description.