sexuality
Gender identity and sexual orientation are distinct—one is who you are, the other is who you’re attracted to. Combining them in filters leads to confusion, exclusion, and fetishization. Separating them allows for better matches, accurate representation, and a more inclusive experience for all users.
Combining gender identity and sexual orientation in filters can be a safety risk for trans users, exposing them to harassment, fetishization, and being outed. It also prevents safe, intentional matching, increasing the risk of misleading or dangerous encounters. Separate filters ensure safer, more respectful connections for everyone.
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As a trans guy, this matters because it affects how you’re seen, who you connect with, and your safety. Without separate filters, you risk being fetishized, misrepresented, or matched with people who aren’t genuinely interested in you. It also increases exposure to harassment and rejection, making dating more frustrating and unsafe. Separate filters ensure you’re seen as a man first, not just a category, and help you connect with people who actually respect and desire you for who you are.