Drawer system for convos. One for yes id hit that, one for nope no way, to a maybe drawer, could go either way.
Aka 3 tier system.
Gold silver bronze. And next to each name the option to point out what you like about the gold tier potential and what you don't like about the bronze tier level candidate. Then a smash button. Hit the smash button for a specific person when you are ready to meet and get close.