How bout before you go out with as big of a bang as you started. Listen to your public. Acknowledge, react, correct and respond - the possibilities of reinventing oneself could be probable. You can only scam and fraud a specific community for so long before it all comes back but this time with opposite effects and a sad, weak reputation. Why let all your outrageous charges go to waste and this goes without saying gay men don't appreciate the screw over; we have away if ensuring one KEEPS WHAT THEY SOW and 3 fold.