I am being stalked by a local guy constantly.

I have an open relationship with my guy. We are both allowed to browse the apps.

This guy favorities my profile and every time he sees me online he texts updates to my other half saying - oh he is back online looking and he can’t be that into you. Blah blah. My other half tells him it’s ok, but he persists in dripping poison.

It’s easy to say ignore. But it’s affecting my partner now. We are open in using the apps. But the constant jealous pressure is making us both very annoyed and upset.

I changed profiles but because he is local he found me again and follow me again. And updates my partner again. Every few mins.

I have zero way of blocking this guy because he sits behind a faceless detail free profile and in a big city so impossible to find.

He is doing this as he is my partners ex lover and insanely jealous.

I enjoy using the app to chat to fun locals especially when I travel to find new places to go.

I hate not having a profile pic / open face pic just to hide from this anonymous stalker.

I wish we could see who favorite us back, so we could block them if need be. That’s what I would like to suggest.

Cheers.