Getting UNBANNED must be faster - via live chat support or a 'second chance' feature
Hi all,
I just got banned while talking to a mate on Grindr. Out of the blue. No warning, no explanation, no nothing. This is all but ridiculous!
I've been using the app for, I don't remember how long now - 6+ years maybe, as it's still not possible to check account creation date despite my feedback to Grindr on the subject months ago - and their system banned me in an instant as if I was using fake ID, advertising, selling, you name it bannable misconduct. Obviously, none of these apply. Yet no first or second warning, nothing at all - just a 'Your account has been banned for violating our Guidelines or Terms of Service' message while I was online and chatting.
This said, I'd like to call for the introduction of a live chat service for users to be able to contact Grindr Support directly and in real time. Right now I'm not even sure whether my in-app report got sent or delivered, as there was no confirmation of any kind neither on-screen, nor via e-mail.
Another suggestion would be the implementation of a 'Second Chance' option that allows offenders to avoid getting permanently banned until another violation. Often, as in my case (although, mind you, I still don't know why I got banned), mistakes do occur - be it on user or app's side - and having the ability to 'postpone' a ban until human Support has decided whether it was a genuine offence that deserved or a ban or a second chance, or it was a mistake due to automated measure in place to prevent abuse.
My only and rather wild guess would be that I got banned for sending my mate a link to show him something. However, I've sent links before and there's never been an issue. I don't remember using an URL shortener though such as bit.do (as in this case). So, if this is what got me banned - a genuine, non-harmful link - I believe it would help many guys to know what EXACTLY is forbidden to send in a private (yeah, right - "private") message and what isn't. How was I even remotely supposed to know using this specific shortener could get me banned? Like, seriously!
Hoping for your support on this, lads.
Kind regards!

We now link directly to a help page and ban appeal form when you get banned. Moderators typically review and respond to ban appeals within 1-2 days.
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ShivaSundra ShivaSundra commented
I want unbanned my grinder account, please help
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perrie commented
My account works on my old android phone, but when I sign into iPhone, it says account banned. Can anyone help?
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Ella Worehead commented
They ban for no reason at all. However, I've got unbanned on Grindr by doing factory reset and using a new phone number via DatingZest Grindr service to bypass verification.
After that I've used new photos, new email. It's working fine now. Even Matches are going strong then before.
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Brenden Moore commented
I'm trying to get unbanned
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LUDIPHINE EGEHIZA commented
I was installing the app and then l was banned
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Martin Finnerty commented
I’ve been banned from Grindr for over three weeks now so saying moderators respond in 1/2 days is definitely not the case. I’ve been using Grindr for I guess five years now maybe even longer and I have no clue why I got banned .
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C0000L GUY commented
I had been using grindr for 5+ years with the same account. On Nov 14, I got banned. I filed an appeal to unban my account on the same day. I have not received any response back from grindr until now. I never violated bullied no one. Never had any problem in 5 years. I have a humble request. Please give me a second chance and unban my account
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Ryan Allen commented
Agreed. It is way too easy to get people banned for no reason other than reporting them. This is likely a calculation on Grindr’s part - erroring on the side of caution to protect themselves than investing in the resources to ensure a fair experience for its users. It’s a shame and just shows we need more options when it comes to gay dating / hookup apps to break the monopoly that Grindr currently holds on the market. As users leave the app, Grindr’s tune will surely change..
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Amjad Shaik commented
So it when unband
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Amjad Shaik commented
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jesuslovelyjackson raj commented
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James Dougherty commented
Why was I banned it makes no sense least tell us why?
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Peanut P commented
Sad thing about this is I was banned too for absolutely no reason or warning of any kind. I missed out on a very important connection because of this. My account is real and never violated any rules
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Debashis karmakar commented
Please unbanned my account and take to get second chance
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Davantae commented
Yeah it's crazy how you get ban for no reason and you haven't been on the app for 3 days
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Chris commented
same issue
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Anonymous commented
Same issue here, the solution offered is not a solution for the problem described so I don't understand why this is marked as answered. The question is live chat support for random bans. It happens to me yesterday in the middle of a chat with a friend just random account banned.
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Anonymous commented
Hi ,
Unfortunately I am bringing the same issue here .
I have been using grindr since 5-7 years and without any reason all of sudden I get notifications that my account is banned :(
It’s really sad …
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Anonymous commented
Same here
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Jake Johnson commented
I got banned because a twink got upset because I didn’t want to hookup with him so he decided to call me the N-word (hard R) and block me so I couldn’t report. So I called him out publicly and they banned me. So much for being anti-racism. Thanks for telling Black users they should tolerate that behavior