No one even shows up for a 3some with my man and I. He spends the whole time on grinder trying to find someone to play with us while ignoring my advances and efforts to turn him on and have a great sexy time! We have a basket full of sex toys; straps, ties vibrating dildos, butt plugs, ticklers, whips, even a sex swing and I love it all!. I love car sex in public, beach sex and anywhere risky really so im definitely not boring! I go commando often and have opened my legs and out his hand there while unzipping his pants and grabbing his cock under the table at a restaurant. He still spends so much time on grinder trying to find someone to come over when we are trying to have a good, sexy night, and gets short with me for asking him to pay me some attention because my efforts go unnoticed, that it ends up ruining our night, or just making it pretty mediocre campared to how it could be, and he blames me for "not grabbing him because he's right here next to me"
I dont get it, just go be with men if you just want that or is it that he wants both but at seperate times bot mix the two worlds together???... Have his cake and eat it too.. ?