For You pulls profiles off the regular grid and into a daily curated list where only Unlimited subscribers can message them. For non-Unlimited subscribers, For You effectively removes the ability to message selected people in the community. Some profiles are curated every day, preventing me from messaging them effectively forever. Users whose profiles are included are never told. Opting out requires finding a "Show me in For You" setting buried in the app. Making some users' profiles available only to higher paying customers, without notice or compensation for effectively using these profile as a promotional advertisement or incentive to upgrade, is a problem. It doesn’t help build a community; it fractures it. Please make inclusion to the For You feature explicitly opt-in, complete with an explanation (something straight forward and honest, like, “we will use your profile to incentivize others to increased their spend with Grindr, while limiting messages to you from people who decline to upgrade their subscription, with no compensation to you”), keep all profiles on the regular grid even if they’re included in the “For You” section, or remove the feature entirely!