Mutual Pic Swap for Fair Image Sharing
I’d like to share a feature idea based on a common user experience, particularly relevant in regions where being openly gay still carries social risk (such as India and other conservative cultures).
Problem:
In many such regions, users often avoid profile photos for safety reasons. Conversations typically progress to private photo exchanges, but this creates a trust imbalance: one user is expected to share first, after which the other may block without reciprocating. This leads to anxiety, frustration, and negative user experiences, even when both parties had genuine interest.
Areas Addressed:
- Trust asymmetry during private photo sharing
- Fear of exposure and misuse of shared images
- High block rates after one-sided pic sharing
- Cultural and safety sensitivities in non-Western markets
Proposed Solution (Brief):
Introduce a "Mutual Pic Swap” feature where photo sharing is locked until both users upload their images. The interface could visually show two side-by-side slots—one for each user. Photos remain inaccessible until both slots are filled, at which point they unlock simultaneously.
This ensures fairness, consent, and reduces anxiety, while encouraging more respectful and meaningful interactions.
I believe this feature could significantly improve user trust, reduce negative interactions, and better support Grindr’s global user base with culturally sensitive design.
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Harper Avian commented
This is a really good idea. It gives me horrible anxiety when that happens. And there are times where someone sends first and I’m not interested, but I send back to keep things balanced, and then have to awkwardly back out of the conversation. Having this would be awesome.