I want to be welcoming and supportive of my larger LGBTQIA community, but can I go to Grindr without seeing what I'm not looking for--and not having to spend an hour hiding folks that aren't looking for what I'm looking for?

I'm happy to share the platform, but can people please tag themselves as a member of a particular community so that I can sort and bypass?

I've kinda lost all energy to use Grindr for this reason. It's broken. I'm not on Bumble. Or Ashley's List for a reason. Why do people make it so hard.

Again, I totally support the community at large and i'm not attacking anyone. But if people don't identify and tag, half of my grid is simply stuff I'm completely not interested in.

And I pay for this?
And have to work at it?
More than I should have to?

More than any reasonable person would want to?

Grindr and others need to do better.
For fucks sake, people.