No show, ghosting, time wasters
Please do something to help cut down on people who make a plan and don’t show up, don’t say anything and stop replying. When someone commits, they tie up your time, you stop looking, you get ready to host a guest, or you travel only to a fake address (very dangerous) or they just don’t answer on arrival. The only way to stop this in community is by the community calling it out. Even had a person I met 2x before tell me he was alone, invited me, and walked 7 blocks over only to watch him open his door to another dude, looked at me and basically shrugged and shut the door. Then said later he didn’t know who it was, he had just been referred by another fb. Why didn’t he tell him he was expecting me any minute? This and too many other similar happens all the time, probably due to drugs, sex addiction, whatever, but it’s getting worse. It’s just MEAN now.
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Forrest Gardens commented
Oh my God, I can't agree with you more. You said it so correctly and to the point that I was even impressed with you as a writer. Let's collaborate on this one because Grindr does need to address this by either collecting 15%. Of a deposit made by the person whose traveling but set by the host which is refunded once the two accounts are within 5 feet of each other. Or refunded by contacting Grindr and reporting a platform error which has happened to me when I didn't get a cell phone number and messaging went down. 7079135852