Feature Request – Optional Filter for Penis Size

Hello Grindr Team,

I’d like to suggest an optional filter or profile field related to penis size.

I understand this topic can be sensitive, but many users already express size preferences in their bios, often in ways that are exclusionary or uncomfortable. Having a discreet, optional way to indicate this would allow users to connect more honestly and avoid awkward or hurtful situations.

Most users already filter by height, body type, position, and even ethnicity. Penis size is also a real compatibility factor for many — both those who prefer larger and those who prefer smaller. Allowing users to share or search by this info respectfully and voluntarily would actually promote inclusion and transparency.

This feature could be visible only to users who opt in, similar to other filters. It would also help people with smaller penises find others who genuinely appreciate or prefer that — instead of feeling invisible or rejected.

Thanks for considering this. I believe it would make the Grindr experience more inclusive and supportive for everyone.