It’s really helpful to find people that match, mirror, or are relatable such as ASD, ADHD, OCD, etc. These individuals usually want or desire peers that will relate or be aligned with their communication style. I know you can’t really list diagnoses and conditions, but neurotypical and neurodivergent are tribes that help each other find each other and often. If not tribe, please make something for this. It’s challenging having to explain something that only peers will truly understand in experience. I’m cool with all people, but it helps add to comfort and safety.