To help separated flakes and pretenders, what about a system/ program/ code that went to parties meet? They are given an option to make like a pinky promise 😉. They agree on a time to ; continue conversation, reconnect, or meet up. It could be set up as an alarm that requires both parties signatures before being set.
If you agree to the promise and don't hold up your end of the deal, your account can be penalized for x amount of time.(X)Number of promises broken after warning= Suspension, or worse case, account will be deactivated.