If the incognito feature can’t be made available free Members privacy and usage time rights should still considered. It’s increasingly disturbing the timing it’s showing a user is online after logging off with messages coming through hours after real time use of app. Often hours later messages arrive disturbing sleep social situations Understandably forever manually adjusting notifications etc will do this but if it’s to hard it’s a negative and like many starting to think it just getting harder to use App

How about a silence/hide till next log in feature. Free incognito or quicker Removal on your part of clients profile online
Do enjoy Grindr but increased restrictiveness when free member of basic user features so restrictive is starting to outweigh enjoyment & appeal of site.
I myself increasingly turning to alternative sites whom now offer users FOC control of their personal profile and how they are used
Grindr in Perth WA Australia becoming little more than a scammers, picture hunters & 3am Wired message hookup site with little quality serviceability as intended dating/hookup app.
I often now won’t go online to check a message or quick look as ultimately going to get hours of unwanted messages after the fact logging off from dedbeats. Allow us options of when & whom see us online Make it more online user friendly suited Contact now me app for us users rather than Grindr sellout take take Upay Upay for every basic app feature. After getting where they are now off our backs instead of $ grabs Have a little greater user community generous 2023 approach with humanity not 90’s used screwed you $ greed.