The term “Side” used to describe a sexual preference
I'm requesting that Grindr removes the option of 'Side' as a sexual preference. The term 'Side' is used to describe individuals who choose not to engage in sexual intercourse. I believe that including this term is counterintuitive and contradictory to sexual behavior. Compared to the sexual roles of top, bottom, and versatile, the inclusion of a role that abstains from sexual activity could potentially pose a threat to homosexual activity. The term 'Side' may also be associated with asexual experimental behavior, where individuals consciously decide not to participate in practical sexual behavior. It is my opinion that terms like 'Side' incrementally attempt to circumvent homosexual behavior. I find it disheartening that popular groups on Grindr would prioritize 'gay' sex over embracing and appreciating homosexual sex. I believe that restricting homosexual activity undermines the concept of being 'Gay.' There appears to be an agenda from privileged families within LGBT or anti homosexual behavior communities who seek to shape and redefine what they deem as acceptable behavior, placing limitations on the homosexual and 'Gay' lifestyle. Once again, I assert that one cannot truly be 'Gay' if they are restricted from engaging in homosexual activity." i implore to think objectively, critically, and empethetically with the inclusion of Side as a sexual preference. This reduces homosexual behavior and poses a threat placed on individuals promoting abtenece
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STEVEN LANCE
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The term side means the dont engage in sexual activities that involve penetration usually the anus. Many who identify as a side do engage in oral and other forms of stimulation. Im actually glad people can put Side as a preference. It allows me to skip them and move on to someone else.