PLEASE Let me filter out trans, women, non-binary, and men in dresses.
Grindr, please show you actually care about your actual member base -- the folks who made you popular. If you are going to insist on making the gay app into a tranny utopia, at least give us the filter to remove them.
- I am a gay man.
- I like men.
- I don't like men who have no penises (they're not men, btw).
- I don't like men who want to be women and wear dresses (that's offensive to real women).
- I only want to talk with gay men, yet you're forcing me to be rude by immediately blocking men when I see them in panties.
Wake up, Grindr. This is very frustrating.
By keeping the trans stuff, you're insulting those who made you popular. You're insulting actual women. You're contributing to the unethical "conversion" of gay men by suggesting they're actually women (this is no better than christian conversion, btw).
I'm a paid member and have been for years. Recently you banned my account because of the profile words "not really into trans" (how much nicer should I put it??). You won't let me state that I'm not into trans and then you push it onto me by not letting me filter them out.
You are literally attempting to force gay me (95% of us) to embrace trans and non-binary. This is offensive and disrespectful to everyone involved.
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Vers Play commented
No, don't you get it?
It's no longer OKAY for you to be a gay man who is only attracted to other gay men. Sure, the community fought for decades (centuries?) for the right to openly seek the relationship you truly desire.
But we've moved well past that.
Now you HAVE to be open to having sex with absolutely ANYONE.. or else you're a bigot.
This is an example of "woke" becoming a parody of itself. It's wrapped around and begun eating its own tail.
Wake the fuck up, Grindr. Perhaps someday we will truly be a race-less, gender-less society where everyone will fuck anyone. That would be kind of cool in many ways.
But.
We're not that society now, and pretending that we are is just stupid and childish.
I'll be brave and say it for you:
It's OKAY to be a gay man who only wants to fuck other gay men.
PHEW! LIBERATION!
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Richard Coates commented
I agree too it started out for gay men not all the other letters of the alphabet
I like men and cock im gay
you need a filter or you will be left with just straight man and trans people on this app as another app will be made for just gay men
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Jaymes commented
Couldn't of said it better myself. We need our own spaces and not to be lumped in with trannies and women. I'm so sick of being banned because I refuse to f#ck a woman.
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Tim commented
So sorry to hear about you being blocked because of "not really into trans"! This cancel culture and rise of censorship is really frightening. I am a lifelong lefty, but me and my liberal friends here in the Netherlands are worried.