Grinder if you make stricter verification and a paid member gets banned and can't make a new account and finish out there membership you will owe them money for the membership they did not finish up or they can take you to court for the money you owe them I looked up the law so unless you make grinder free you can't to that you charge way too much money for some one to just lose in a band grinder is the number #1 dating sex app if you do that it won't be no more Im also a member on jacked and hornet and there not doing that