It seems a lot of people either never experienced or forgot what it’s like to be in a relatively small community and/or have bigots for family. I know a guy personally who will out people he knows who are down-low due to careers, family members, whatever because he thinks it’s funny. I’ve seen it done to people on fetlife too. We should be able to explore the community without being blatantly exposed the whole time. I’m closeted. I likely will be til most of the elder generation in my family is dead. Forcing me out is forcing me off the app. I don’t want or need another problem in my life let alone that one. If you read a profile and like how it sounds, why are people so goddamn spoiled they can’t ask for a face pic? I will gladly share one if someone asks, but I need to feel comfortable first. That’s not too much to ask.