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Hello Grindr
I also request this feature to help with the mental health of your users.. i am sure you are aware how these dating apps can be detrimental to the mental health of us gay men seeking friendships, and approval. On the frequent occasions that our advances are rebuffed or worse yet ignored completely I would wish to have a HIDE FILTER option to no longer see this person that I really like… To keep hope alive that maybe one day they might reconsider, I want them to still see me while I no longer see them… unless I decide to… The act of BLOCKING a person is extreme, is a negative experience and I prefer to only use a block when someone is being intentionally mean, or is a criminal, or refuses to accept my polite decline…. in only this case does a block make sense to me. For my mental health, I do not want to see all the men i am attracted to on the page in front of me like a who’s who of rejection… but like I said, I want them to still see me to reconsider…I want to keep HOPE alive!! Blocks take away my hope. I am sure you have an army of psychologists that know this. Please consider adding a simple filter button “this guy is not interested - remove him from my view”. in this way I can move on without becoming hopeless and can focus on the men who might make me happy. This small change would go a long way towards helping improve the mental well being of Grindr users. I hope that our well being is of the highest priority for the creators of Grinder. I really would appreciate your help with this. Other apps already offer this common sense feature. Thanks 😃
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I strongly disagree. both block AND hide are important. I want to hide all guys who are not interested at the moment letting them still see my profile and reach out to me in future if they like… but I do NOT want to see them in my feed or messages anymore so I will not message them by mistake and I will not have to be constantly reminded of their rejection. The best option is to have a hide/archive option as well as a block option
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I couldn’t more strongly disagree. Rejection is harder to deal with for some than others and some of us can’t tolerate seeing the same guys in our feed every day knowing we are not hot enough for them. For me this hide/archive option is critically important for my mental well being. I want all guys interested or not to see my profile and be able to contact me… I want to hide guys from my profile who have not responded or are not interested..