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    So while I do understand his frustrating it can be to be confronted with being asked to pay for the company of ones desired companion. Regardless of how tough of a man you are, I can imagine tgst it doesn’t make a man feel good about themselves. However, on the other side of the spectrum exists the “trans” tribe. No it’s not like I expect anyone to really care considering the fact that the app is for gay men in for a long time we’re not welcome to the app for obvious reasons being women. Now that there is a section for us, and with the recent addition of massive amounts of straight, bi, down low, curious, etc. cis males flooding onto Grindr. There have been some negative consequences for all that use grindr. However, I’m tired of having my account banned for simply defending myself against their degrading and often times hurtful antics toward T girls specifically. It’s gotten to a point to where mini in the trans community are made to feel worth even less than a cheap *********** walking the streets. These men look at us as being not man, nor woman, but instead labeling our gender identity as “*** object” or “fetish” And very much so treating us as being nothing more as such. It’s gotten to the point to where me and many other trans girls simply have Little to no choice but to use the magic word that makes these men go away. Just three letters with an optional question mark And poof! They disappear. Although the word is magic and is being used in art community as a defense mechanism more than anything else, we still have to fear being reported for it. Never mind the fact that they may have told us Things that not only hurt us emotionally but make us act physically and mentally in the long run. In conclusion, if you’re going to have a trans tribe, it would be very nice for us to have a little bit more protection then a simple three letter word which should be common sense considering most of these men want us to be the man and dominate them pull out our dicks that we wish weren’t there So they can get off I nearest often times secret desire to be us for a little while. Probably all over the board with this comment, Been in conclusion I think that the D stigmatization of alleged *** you work happen. As you stigmatizing it does nothing but protect toxic men from having to treat trans women with human decency at the very least. In punishes T girls for using an app that we should’ve been included in since the app launched. If you actually read this thank you!

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