There are a lot of men (who identify as straight) looking for trans people and it’s starting to be come uncomfortable with the language they use on their profiles. Could you not ask what they are after when setting up the app so gay men are filtered out from their feed and they (the self identified straights) are filtered from gay mens feeds. That way gay men can feel safe, the straights won’t get annoyed by unwanted attention and trans people will be unaffected.
There are a lot of men (who identify as straight) looking for trans people and it’s starting to be come uncomfortable with the language they use on their profiles. Could you not ask what they are after when setting up the app so gay men are filtered out from their feed and they (the self identified straights) are filtered from gay mens feeds. That way gay men can feel safe, the straights won’t get annoyed by unwanted attention and trans people will be unaffected.