@Eventide it's not that simple and you don't get to tell people what they deem racist/ hurtful to them or not above all what. Stay in your lane instead of lecturing people. There's been a hyper-sexualisation of black bodies since...forever and if you're not Black yourself, you have no idea what type of weird, sick and racist disguised as interest or attention we receive daily. So keep your very basic and limited understanding of the topic to yourself. No one said someone who happens to be attracted to black men smong others was racist, but the way you put it you contradict yourself because you say singling out someone because you say "saying I LOVE BLACK MEN" is not racist when it's actually singling out someone based on race. I actually hate when someone messages me and says that, I'm like do you need a medal for liking Black men? Who cares if you like Black, yellow or blue men? It's 2021ny skin tone is part of me but I'm more than that. Keep your reversed psychology and your fragility to yourself before judging who's racist or not, as this person may have had too many bad experiences hence decided to stick to Black men. I, personally would be tempted to do the same to avoid the cringe interactions,if only 95% of my area wasn't white. You clearly don't know what you're talking about so refrain from lecturing others. Things are much more complex and gays are often the most racist, they'll sleep with Black men but won't date one.
@Eventide it's not that simple and you don't get to tell people what they deem racist/ hurtful to them or not above all what. Stay in your lane instead of lecturing people. There's been a hyper-sexualisation of black bodies since...forever and if you're not Black yourself, you have no idea what type of weird, sick and racist disguised as interest or attention we receive daily. So keep your very basic and limited understanding of the topic to yourself. No one said someone who happens to be attracted to black men smong others was racist, but the way you put it you contradict yourself because you say singling out someone because you say "saying I LOVE BLACK MEN" is not racist when it's actually singling out someone based on race. I actually hate when someone messages me and says that, I'm like do you need a medal for liking Black men? Who cares if you like Black, yellow or blue men? It's 2021ny skin tone is part of me but I'm more than that. Keep your reversed psychology and your fragility to yourself before judging who's racist or not, as this person may have had too many bad experiences hence decided to stick to Black men. I, personally would be tempted to do the same to avoid the cringe interactions,if only 95% of my area wasn't white. You clearly don't know what you're talking about so refrain from lecturing others. Things are much more complex and gays are often the most racist, they'll sleep with Black men but won't date one.