Some of us are not interested in activities where you have to declare top or bottom. There are so many options for those who are. But I would really like to search for guys who are into oral only or mutual JO, etc.

I didn't even know about the terminology "side", I've spent some time explaining to many guys how I prefer no ***********. I will definitely use "side" now, and hope to see it as an option in the position list soon!

While it’s a very good to allow users showing their preferred position (top/bottom/vers) - the “side” property (Not into any position) is missing.

This is not the same as not showing that preference at all, as this can be very easily relate to discretion rather than to an actual preference of not liking penetrations.