More options for position: BJ JO
Some of us are not interested in activities where you have to delcare top or bottom. So many options for those of you that are :)
Can we have options for BJ and JO?
I would really like to search for guys that are just into BJs or Mutual JO.
I agree times you just want a hand or bj
Amen to that. Not all of us enjoy **** which seems bizarre to most gay guys but **** just doesn’t do anything for me I find it a bit disgusting tbh. Oral is my favourite thing so it would be easier if it was a filter option so we can match with other “sides” and be able to have fun without the pressure of doing something we don’t like
Brian Alexander commented
Joe Cervantes commented
Yes more options PLUS the option to write our own
Jaego Markson commented
Well my idea to state what you're looking for today or in that instance solves this problem
BJ's, HJ's, JO's are a very sane, appreciate and important topic. So many misunderstandings I believe can be avoided if the ability for frank discussion is allowed. I am a physician, retired and trying to recover from time lost. I am only interested in sucking, no reciprocal desired. I'd love the opportunity to clearly communicate that information in my profile.
Love to feel free when offering to give a hummer to the right guy.
Definitely need to have this added! As many have already stated we're not all into ****. It is NOT a prerequisite for being gay/having a fulfilling love life (other orientations are also available, please contact your local stockist for details, erections may go up as well as down, terms and conditions apply, see overleaf for details 😆) Please add this option for us, it would take the misery out of having to explain to guys on here why our butts are out of bounds. Thanks!
Just having a "Side" option in the positions list would go a long way for me. I understand that to other gay men this may sound trivial, but dealing with the blowback from this is by far the most stressful part of using Grindr for me.
I would love for the people for whom anal is really important to have a way to filter me out, and I would love to have a way to find other people who are okay with doing something else.
I'm tired of having the "But what do you even do then?!", "Are sure you are even gay?", and "But you have not tried it with me yet..." conversations.
I need sum 1 to jerk and ******* off
Yes I like this, please
I just posted about this too and completely agree. I’m absolutely not into butt stuff - I don’t enjoy bottoming, I’m not turned on by butts and frankly find rimming a little gross. But I feel like I’m admitting to a crime every time I mention that to other gay men because “sides” are often judged and treated as less-than.
I'm not a top or bottom. I'm a side.
Url of description
Basically everything except for penetrative ********. Some sides also limit their ****** activities further. It's just like how a top can refuse you toss your salad because he's not into that.
For more information Google "top bottom side" or "coming out as a side"
For those being shamed Or embarrassed for not wishing to engage in ********: You are valid. You are worthy. You are not any less gay. You are still having *** and ****** relationships. There is NOTHING wrong with you. Don't give in to something you're not comfortable with.
Side note, (pun intended) *********** is not required for a pleasurable ****** experience.
Scott Glanville commented
Weirdly there a hookup app yet ****** suggestive profile photos aren't allowed but ****** preferences are lol
Oh my yes, an "oran only" would be perfect. I'm neither a top nor a bottom, just like oral stuff and people never understand me therefore such an option would be perfect ! Great idea !!!
Add this and make it filter-able for users.
As a user, I want to be able to declare on my profile that I am interested in only mutual masturbation*.
As a user, I want to be able to filter the profiles to show only other users who are interested in mutual masturbation*.
*or “oral *** only”
a "side" option would be great!!
Thats what profile descriptions are for.. yet none of the pathetic horn dogs reads profiles and send exactly what your profile says NOT to send. .SMH
Definitely would be helpful for us to state ****** activities, eg. oral, kissing, ****. As people have said below, not everyone is into ****. It will help us find what we're looking for and what we can do, so no one is disappointed when meeting!
I totally agree with this!